My boyfriend is 16 and weve been going out 11 mounths and we brooke up and he when we have sex he only says i love you then do you think that he used me or do you think he really loves me????
2006-07-02 19:00:01 · 10 answers · asked by JESSICA W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were your mother, I would sue the heck out of him for rape, and get all I could out of his family, because you are both minors in the eyes of the law, and what you have done is wrong, no matter what you say or do now...
You are going to have plenty of regrets as you grow up more...
2006-07-02 19:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by aspenkdp2003 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
He may of cared for you but I dont think he loved you, most 16 year old guys dont know what love is. I say this because of his lack of maturity when to say I love you. I have to be honest with you, I don't think that at 14 your ready for sex. Just for this reason, sex is not just about love, it is about committment. You had a pretty long run for your age, but in a true committment you don't break up. This is the reason for marriage, and that sex is better left to that kind of committment. The committment part of marriage means that you try every thing and anything to make it work, to come to some sort of agreement on an issue that has come up. Not every married couple see's committment this way in a marriage, hence the high divorce rate. But if I were you, I would seriously re think with the next boyfriend about Not having sex with him if only for the reason to guard your heart.
2006-07-03 02:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by authorunknown1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry my girl! He only used you!
You are still young, and PLENTY of bastards is gonna break your heart. I am 25 years old and belive you me, i know wot i'm talking about! He is still young and is only looking 4 sex, @ that age, sex is like a competition to men, se how menny girls thay can sleep with. Like i said i'm 25 and have only now found the one i love and he actualy LOVES ME! So hang in there! Hell come aroud!
2006-07-03 02:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason you broke up right? Perhaps he does love you but doesn't know what else to say to you during that time. What could be better than to hear, "I love you!" during those wee moments of exploring each other? I dont think he could say anything worse than that! Honestly when you get older, its AWESOME to hear that during love making. (in my opinion)
and if he has an unsure, dull look on his face when he tells you that, then he is not sure he means it! I wouldn't get too worried about it. Ask him how he feels, if he says " I dunno", don't worry. Give it time. You have LOTS of time girl! Sorry I couldn't say much more.
Good luck!
2006-07-03 02:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Cherries 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he only says it when ur having sex then i think hes just using i love u as a way to get in ur pants..but if he says it other times then i think he means it..but only u can tell if u love someone or u u feel the love bac
2006-07-03 02:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by GMK 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice, don't fall in love too early in life. Being young is about having fun.
2006-07-03 02:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Carolina Kitten 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry.........you got used.....sex is not love.....for women it is for men it isnt.....Sex and love are 2 diff...thangs.....besides you are 14.....telling you now you will regret it......I havnt met a women yet who wishes she had saved her virginity for the love of their life....which you can not learn at the age of 14 yrs....you still a child. You bf just got what he wanted not what you two needed......sorry!
2006-07-03 02:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by eraxpar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well with that age dont expect for a life-time relationship..just learn it . i cant say he used you or maybe there is really a reason behind it. have more fun than that =)
2006-07-03 02:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by hollaback holly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were used. Don't ever see him again. Listen to your parents and wait.
2006-07-03 02:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by hack_ace 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he used you .and your a little young to be doing that
2006-07-03 02:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by bluehair_79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋