I might be pregnant (pretty sure I am) and if I am, I am considering taking the abortion pill. I dont want to but already have a child and am in a tight place in my life right now, if I do I know I am going to have to deal with the wondering of what my child would have been and so on but I just feel its the best thing to do in my situation. My bf knows of the possibility but doesnt want me to take the pill if I am. He loves me and understands things from my point of view but just feels that I shouldnt but I am. I cant really talk to him about it if I am because he knows what the outcome wil be and that will hurt him even more (ands i do not want to put him through anything) so i dont know who to turn to and I know if I do it, I am going to need alot of support but dont want to tell my mom either. Or really anyone! Because itll already be really hard on me, too hard to talk about ....n e advice? suggestions? about how to cope?
2006-07-02 18:34:35 · 8 answers · asked by worldpeace071190 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
well take the pregenancy test and find out for sure.. second its your choice no one can tell you how to feel.. do what you need to do go with your heart not other peoples hearts this is going to effect your life not others you know what you can handle...when your ready to have more kids if your reay to have more kids some day then you willl know it....
2006-07-02 18:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by kingers332002 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you do decide to abort, go to a clinic or a doctor to help you choose and administer your method. Do NOT get some hoaky pill online, putting something that serious in your body can do some major damage if you don't have the proper supervision. Also, a clinic may be able to provide some sort of emotional support group for you to join. But discuss this thoroughly with your boyfriend, let him have a say, it's his creation, too. Make sure he knows why you think it would be best and make sure he's able to tell you how he feels and why he feels that way.
2006-07-03 01:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by Manders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a loving and supportive relationship, the two of you should be able to work through this together. I had a miscarriage and I do all of the "wondering" that you speak of and I think you would regret this later on.
Also, I don't think fate would deal you this card if you couldn't handle it. It might be hard, but this child might also be the best thing to happen to you.
2006-07-03 01:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by seattlecutiepie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you go for it. It will be hard but just try it out. And if you just cant do it then consider adoption. good luck
2006-07-03 01:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have like 12 hours to take that pill. I'm pretty sure it's too late.
Adoption, adoption, adoption!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's not about you. You already created someone else. It's about them!
2006-07-09 01:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by oarrca 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, how old are you? How old is your child? Are you working?
2006-07-03 01:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by KathyB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant afford to have another child , you already know what you have to do , its your choice follow threw with it
2006-07-03 01:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats sad i couldnt murder a child
2006-07-09 02:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by jacelynwoodley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋