So I was dating this girl for about 3 months, it was a great three months. Well one drunk night I told her I was falling for her....(or in love with her)... Afterwards she was kinda distant with me...after we talked about it everything seemed ok, well about three weeks later she broke it off, and the reason didnt seem right. so I found out that she was scared about what I said. So we havent seen each other in a few weeks and she still has some of my stuff at her house, I went to pick it up and told her how I felt and that If she needed anything that I would be here, Well she didnt give me everything and when I called her to get it she said I could pick it up anything, but everything I call to pick it up shes busy and will let me know. Ive heard from other people that she still has feelings, what should I do???? What would you do?
2006-07-02 18:32:08 · 6 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her a little time and then call again. If she still has feelings for you, it may be hard for her to let go of your things (even if they are "your things") because by giving them back, it kind of puts a finality to the whole situation. Maybe she just can't cope with it.
I'd try again, maybe see if you can arrange a specific date and time to pick up the items. When you get there, see if she wants to get coffee or something and go from there.
2006-07-02 18:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by jerkygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, unless you're picking up gold or something of great value; leave the stuff alone. You're just using it as an excuse to see the chick. Back away. She's not interested.
2006-07-03 01:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to get over someone, it's even harder to keep trying to go after someone who doesn't feel the same way you do. So I would find someone else. Did you know theres 3.1 billion women in the world. and all you need to find is one, you can do it. gl
2006-07-03 01:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by calistyles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REAL TALK!!!!!!!!!!
BE A MAN QUIT BEING A PUSSY EXCUSE MY FRENCH BUT YOU LET HER NO TO MUCH YOU SHOULD HAVE TOOK HER OUT LIKE AN ADULT AND TOLD HER HOW YOU FELT I BET YOUR A NICE GUY BUT YOU NEED TO THINK ABOUT YOUR FEELING AND YOUR SITUATION FOR-REAL MAN DON'T BE A DUMMY GIRLS OR SHOULD I SAY WOMEN CAN PLAY GAMES ESPECIALLY IF THEY HAVE A GOOD MAN WAITING MAN UP MAN 2 MAN I'LL HOLLA
2006-07-03 01:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I don't think she likes you the way you like her. I think she only wants to have you around nothing seriously. The feeling she seems to have for you is friendship.
2006-07-03 01:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's keeping your stuff so that she can keep you in her life. If she wasn't interested, she'd give you back your stuff. Give it some time, and call her again.
Good luck!
2006-07-03 01:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by c90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋