This guy im talkin about.. well last summer he actually liked me and this other girl that i said hes in love with.. And the only reason i know all that is because he told me.. so im the type of person that can never tell what's happening to myself but can always tell what's happening to other people.. so i think he doesnt like me.. but i dunno.. a couple of weeks ago we hooked up.. but he told me that he would still like to be able to hook up even when this girl he likes is goin out with him!! so yeah i took that as being used, and i said no to that right away.. But please please please help.. cuz i dunno what to do!! Ive never liked him before so... oh and did i mention i work with both him and the girl hes in love with!!Yeah akward!! Hopefully i didnt confuse u too much!!
2006-07-02 18:29:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like to me that he loves the other girl and just wants to use you for sex. You're smarter than that!! Find yourself a nice man that wants to be with you for more than just sex!!!! Sounds like he can't have just one girl, Do you want a man like that?
2006-07-02 18:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by tigerlilly4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time. He's using you and your instincts are correct. He wants a sure thing while he has something steady. Don't be part of the drama, get out with your emotional health in tact.
Guys like to play these games. Sabatage relationships so they don't have to feel like they are getting close. He will use you to distance himself from his other relationship.
Count on being used on 2 levels. My motto - leave the drama to your mamma.
2006-07-02 18:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by marketingcast 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should hook up with the chick he's in love with. Because you are in love with her and she's in love with you. lol. But you still love him too.
I know
All three of you should just all hook up together. Problem solved.
Please no need to thank me, thats what im here for
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2006-07-02 18:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by Tyson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he just want to play around... BUT he might like you seriously and just having fun with the girl who he is going out with. But,,,I wouldn't go for it...
2006-07-02 18:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be aggresive and come on to him in front of her. Tell her she can come too. The three of you can have a taboo
2006-07-02 18:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by cmcvayc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know how many single guys there are out there....Go find someone else.
2006-07-02 18:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by calistyles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋