daniel and i broke up a while ago and i still love him but how do i tell him now that hes going out with my best friend, and i told her she could.
2006-07-02 17:50:29 · 25 answers · asked by Caitlin A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i didnt no that i still loved him till i saw them together. idk mayb im jealous that he likes her more than m-- but i want him bac sooo... bad
2006-07-05 16:59:02 · update #1
omg seems like we are the same person!! that is totally what happened to me...and really i dont know the answer. if i knew the answer i would be talking to him right now...i guess it is really hard to make a desision like that because you dont know what he is going to say and because he already has a girlfriend...i guess what you do is you try to stick it out until you know that your ex and your "best friend" broke up and then you call him and tell him "just to let you know, i love you." i guess that would be pretty funny...and i know how it feels. like today, i saw my ex and he was at walmart and after 1 year that i broke up with him i saw him and i felt like total dirt!!! i wanted to talk to him but i didnt...so i guess it was my fault...anyways, i hope that you get a better answer and so then i can also know what i should do... =) Good Luck...!
love,
*BeTtY*
2006-07-02 17:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by *BeTtY* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty simple: Open your mouth and tell him you love him. It's no more complicated than you choose to make it.
As for the rest of the problem, have faith that if you broke up with your boyfriend your friend will too. In the meantime, other than telling him you love him- respect the boundries of your ex and your friend and don't do anything else. I do have a question of my own though- if you love him, why did you break up to begin with?
2006-07-02 18:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all that is no friend of yours that would even consider dateing your ex. She is just a associate. Second leave that one alone. Because if he could date your so-called friend then that is someone that you do not want to be with. Move on feel what you need to feel and find someone who will love you and not your friends at least like that.
2006-07-02 17:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by princess4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to tell him...but make sure that it's not just because he's with another girl,are your feelings true?This is what I said to my ex from 7 yrs ago (always stayed in contact), I said "look, I still truely care for you,I've missed you,and I can honestly say I still love you.." And we're together now,for good.
2006-07-02 17:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by hotmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is to tell him staright away. give a phone call or something. but I recommend you not to do it coz he sounds not a great person to fall in love with. coz he has started an affair with you best friend. that guy is a temporary pleasure finder. get rid of him ASAP. you won;t find the eternal happiness with him. you deserve some one better. wait till the opportune moment
2006-07-02 18:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by dil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to get him on his own and just say straight up hey i have to tell you that i still love you i know your hooked up right now with so and so but i still love you then just say friends a kiss on the cheek and walk away then things will be and happen as they should after that trust me this will work and will make him even more keen for you
2006-07-02 17:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont love that cracka. You just jealous that your friend is all over your ex and seems to happier than you were. You just gots to move on honey and stop acting like a child.
2006-07-02 17:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by n l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You messed up big time by telling your best friend that she can date you ex. And what kind of best friend is she for wanting to go out with your ex. I think you should leave them both alone.
2006-07-02 17:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by moniq118 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cave man style. Smack the bastard on the head, nock his a** out then take him to a secluded location, tell him you love him but you have to do it. Then go to push him off a bridge, stop and say no just kidding, now do you get it.. I LOVE YOU A** HOLE.
2006-07-02 17:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by eagles757 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of friend-and I use the term loosely- do you have, that would even want to date your ex? and what type of person is he to want to date your best friend?? if you really cant move past him,then tell him...i really think you just need to find a new man and best friend
2006-07-03 04:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by Kaeos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋