Seriously, do men say exactly what they mean or are there hidden secret messages?
2006-07-02 17:47:17 · 10 answers · asked by somebody 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I wanna say this. No, not really. But what I mean is kinda. See it's all mixed and distorted. If I say No, there's a good chance it means kinda. If I say Yes, well, that all depends.
2006-07-02 17:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by Steelers 6 Penguins 3 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Everything we say is to get closer to being able to have sex with a girl. If we feel very, very strongly about a girl, and want to spend the rest of our lives with her, then we will wait, but otherwise sex is the thought in mind.
Guys are really either interested or not, but there is no complex process. Either we think of you as someone we could possibly have sex with, (however far off in the future), or not. In which case, just friends.
email me, girl, I'll send you an email that will definitely help. slyguy_hzleyes@yahoo.com
Addition---
If you've said or heard these phrases, you could have been lied to:
"I have never felt like this with anyone."
"I can't believe it's only been three dates."
"I never thought I'd find you."
"I'm going into the Peace Corps and I might not ever come back."
"Do you ever sonder if we're compatible?"
"I love you."
Rejection lines decoded:
10. I think of you as a sister. (I'm just not attracted to you.)
9. There's a slight difference in our ages. (I'm just not attracted to you.)
8. I'm not attracted to you in that way. (self-explanitory)
7. My life is too complicated right now. (I can't keep juggling you and dating my new crush.)
6. I've got a girlfriend. (I'm just not attracted to you enough to dummp her.)
5. I don't date women where I work. (I see a nasty break up in our future, and I need this job.)
4. It's not you, it's me. (It's you.)
3. I'm concentrating on my career. (I'm just not attracted to you.)
2. I'm celibate. (Betcha can't guess what he means by this one, ladies.)
and finally at the number one spot on the countdown
1. Let's be friends. (I value you as an important influence in my life and can't imagine navigating my free time without you being a part of it. Did I mention that I'm just not attracted to you?)
2006-07-02 17:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There iz no manual for us, we learn over time lol like dogs, We always say exactly what is on our minds except if its a little on the extreme end then clue come in...
Like Can you tell me how my bed feels lmao
2006-07-02 17:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by MMMuah!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will say anything you want to hear if it will get them in your pants.Watch out for anything they have to say when it comes to a relationship because as a young mans hormones are raging he will do what ever it takes to satisfy the desire
2006-07-02 17:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by dragon_hapki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are pretty basic. Take them for face value and 98% of the time, you'll get the accurate message.
2006-07-02 17:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by Steve H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no guy i have ever met says exactly what he means, unless he was one of those emo guys. maybe once you were dating him for a while, then he would. but i've been dating this guy over a year and he still keeps everything bundled up inside of him. get him drunk then he'll tell all. that's how i get my man to tell me everything. hahah, no joke
2006-07-02 17:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Kelsey B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you are stereotyping a little bit to much. but from personal experience being a guy we don't totally commit to expressing our feelings but just go part way
2006-07-02 17:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by night_fox51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u tell me, women are the same
2006-07-02 17:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by againstallodds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be both ways
2006-07-02 17:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is in their heads... u have to be a genius phsychic to read them....
2006-07-02 17:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by answerer101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋