we r new friends and i dont want to loss her and also she have buttifull body (a s s )
2006-07-02 17:45:33 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-02 17:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by bigbadjohnsnow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want to you can't really force her. Anal sex is something that has to be planned out and the person receiving has to be comfortable with the idea and relaxed. Also she has to trust you. You acting like a jerk and begging for it like a whiney ***** just makes her say no.
If done correctly it can be enjoyable by both parties, unfortunately it is rarely done right. You have to start off small with toys, lubes, and such. Jumping into anal sex is the wrong way to go about it and will cause pain, that is why most girls that have tried it will never do it again.
There is a muscle involved, you have to stretch that muscle, just like stretching for exercise. If you don't do that you hurt yourself. It's that simple. It takes time to reach a point that anal sex is comfortable for both parties. BTW, if done wrong it can hurt you too.
Some girls are into it, some are not and never will try it. There is a tendency for younger girls not to be interested, because most inexperienced girls are too afraid to do most anything out of the norm because they still have the pain of losing their virginity fresh in their mind (yes, men, that hurts too). Woman in newer relationships won’t either usually unless they have done so with a previous partner and enjoyed it, because they don't trust you yet.
Right now you seem a little too insensitive to her needs and wants. Maybe you should go read a book or watch an instructional film about the subject. Sometimes if you learn the correct way to do something you will impress her with your knowledge and she will be willing to try it. Just remember baby steps.
Can you tell I have had to explain this too many times at my job?
2006-07-02 18:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by charice266 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you sound very selfish in your sexual demands! Anal sex is only for the few ( not me I am glad to say ) and I suggest that to the majority it is looked on as a perversion. I mean you wouldn't really enjoy nasal or earhole sex would you?
Your relationship is new, treat it with respect, nurture it and don't make these demands that I suspect alarm her. Push it too far and she will view you as a real pain in the ****!
2006-07-02 17:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to the girl. you have to let her decide, u cant force her to do it if she does not want to. If she says no must respect that, maybe in time like many months later ask again, she might go for it. but all you can do is ask, the worst she can say is no. If she does, then ask well in the future might you want to. Just see what she says and respect that.
2006-07-02 17:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by care_bearclb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anal sex are usually for gay men because gay men don't have the hole that real girls have. If you respect and truly love this girl and she is not a hore, do it the normal way,God created women because they are designed to have a hole in their vagina for men, you can change position and do the dog style, but you don't have to do it in her anus....be a real man do it the manly way not the gay way...
2006-07-02 17:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by pinky c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some don't like it life time. buddy this take some time for her to understand that you really like it. if she really loves you ONE DAY she'll give you a chance. wait till that time. Remember when you chase a butterfly it flyies away. but if you stay calm and sit it will come and land on your shoulder. Let her know that you like it. she obviously doesn't like it at this very moment. But when the time goes let her feel it.... at least she might be sympathetic and let you do it once. if she feel that it's good you are on the move buddy
2006-07-02 17:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by dil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it would be your first time and you would like to try it with her.
Make sure to have lube though and go very slow when you are entering her. You may want to finger her there before you try to enter, it will help to loose it up and little and she'll be able to see what it will feel like.
2006-07-02 17:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by NyceGyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can convince her to have anal when you experience anal sex from another person and see how it feels.
2006-07-02 17:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by san jer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girfriend doesnt want to do anal sex - leave it at that ok, its not everyones cup of tea is it. why dont you shove something up your own asshole.
2006-07-05 08:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by Little Minx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have to convince her, if she wants to then she will if not there are other wonderful things you too can do that both of you will enjoy. Be patient
2006-07-02 17:49:30 · answer #10 · answered by angel_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U must be lucky to get someone how actually want it...cos most women don't want it.....it's really pain full.........respect them....if you love them. Sex is about two individual becoming as one.....so both must enjoy it...not 1 party only.
2006-07-02 17:53:23 · answer #11 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋