we talk on the phone atleast 1 a day but i mosty call him.we have chilled 3 times since we broke up 1 month ago. he claims hes not dating,talking,or seeing anyone else. but he wont talk about our relatioship
2006-07-02 17:41:28 · 13 answers · asked by carebearmaree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away little one. Now I don't know all the details of your situation but from what you're saying in your question I can fully tell that this guy is purposly stringing you along. If he wanted to be with you then he would've said something by now or he would've given clear signs saying he wanted to be with you. Seeing as he's refusing to even talk about getting together with you tells me that he does not respect you.
A bit far fetched. I'm afraid not little one.
I say he does'nt respect you because he's not complying with a simple request. He's not giving you the one thing that you're asking for. A simple answer to a simple question. This guy is stringing you along and loving every minute of it. He gets satisfaction out of the fact that he can still get you to come over and hang out, he can still get you to call him everyday, he does'nt have to give you any answer to any of your questions about getting back together all with out even being your boyfriend.
Leave it alone girlfriend. Remember why you broke up in the first place. Something was not right either on his side or yours. I'd be willing to bet if you stopped calling him and stopped hanging out with him, he'd be dying to get back with you then.
But don't fall into any of his games either. Your time is far too precious. You are too cute, too smart, too fabulous and too independant to fall for some guys crap.
Just remember only do things that are in YOUR best intrest. No one elses. Hope this helps some. Best of luck.
2006-07-02 17:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by ilah23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-02 17:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. we've all been in this spot at one aspect or yet another. Honey the desirable aspect you may do is fall in love with your self. replace your hair or pass procuring for a sparkling look and new you. stumble on a activity. Get some lady time in with acquaintances. the desirable aspect you may do is act like you're over him. teach self assurance in your self and he will be questioning your over him. per chance the shoe will be on the different foot and he will commence calling you and asking questions. Create suspense. If it would not paintings a minimum of you've a sparkling look on your new existence and probably latch onto a sparkling guy. good success!!!!!!!
2016-11-30 04:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't take this the wrong way but u sound young as hell, what u still waiting around for, obviously he's messing with somebody else, but wants to be sexually involved with u. i was in that same situation back in like 9th-10th grade. Girl Bye!! keep on moving it's somebody out there better. Why u selling yourself short like that.
2006-07-02 17:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, notice that YOU are calling HIM. Bad sign. He is probably telling you the things you want to hear because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. And, he may still love you and not be over you, but may realize that you are not good together. So, do this - don't call him for a week. If he doesn't call you, you have your answer. Don't be his backup.
2006-07-02 18:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Roach25486 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be afraid of commitment or perhaps feels you might be overbearing if you two get together sometimes things do change wheen you actually make it official that your baxck together things are easier and better this way he is commited to you and he knows that this way there wont be fighting or arguments just sit back and let things happen slowly and in time he will come around if it is meant to be
2006-07-02 17:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda in the same situation i would say hes just leading u on he wants to break away but for whatever reason cant i can see this isnt healthy for u it summertime go find someone new thats what im gonna do it's his loss to not stay with you!!
2006-07-02 17:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Pacman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he doesn't care about you. You may just want to move on. He is just going to hold you back.
2006-07-02 17:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by jazjadaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all about just having to have you in bed again , so everthing will depend on you, he is not an EX for no reason...
2006-07-02 17:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by pinky c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he talking to someone else, that why he wont answer your question. why are you waiting around for answer any way
need to move on, if meant to be it will be.
2006-07-02 18:00:50 · answer #10 · answered by jazzsinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋