Im 18, and My last relationship was with a boy (we'll call him tee) and we dated for 3 years (on and off) hes my neighbor & he cheated on me with 2 friends (well..were) and i put up with alot of bull, we broke up and i started see'n a few of his friends (and i fell for his friend, Wee) Tee & Me been broke up for about 3 years, and since last years tee's been hanging around and the other day he told me he loved me and I think im gunna give him a shot but, i really want his friend wee..my friends think that its wrong to use tee to get wee but tee used me and cheated on me with 2 of my friends (and other countless girls.) is it wrong to treat him the same way he treated me?
2006-07-02 17:37:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes i just wanna get back at him for what he did, make him cry like i did, make him feel as worthless and shitty as i did and throw him into all the bull i had to put up with.. =( is it bad not to feel bad about servin him his own dose?
2006-07-02 17:43:29 · update #1
wee doesnt want me anymore but i wanna get close to wee again, ive tried everything under the sun for ..um 2 and a half years.
2006-07-02 17:44:39 · update #2
Two wrongs do not make a right. You need to be woman enough and tell wee that you want to get with him.
2006-07-02 17:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by colleyshey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like getting involved with "Tee" again would be a huge mistake. If you choose to use him you run the risk of falling for him again then you are right back where you started. If you are really interested in "Wee" then make the move yourself. Don't bring yourself down to "Tee"s level. I know you'll probably hear this again and again (I know I didn't believe it when my mom told me) but, you're young, take a stand now and just take a good hard look at what you want and don't settle for less.
2006-07-02 17:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by chriswtj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up !. You are not living in the Babyloninan Civilisation times, where "an eye for an eye and tooth for a tooth" was the rule. Move on.. if you dont like tee for what he has done - leave him alone - and if you like "wee" talk to him and get him. Why punish "tee" or use him ? Life is there to enjoy - not punish others and get punished.
2006-07-02 17:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by deebeein 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right. Leave Tee alone and let Wee know how you really feel. Just be honest. It will save you a world of trouble.
2006-07-02 17:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong. Stop playing games.Your 18 and on your way to adulthood,act like it. Tell him you cant be with him because he hurt you and your not opening yourself up to that again. If you care for 'wee' then be honest with him and open. Dont use him. Thats wrong. And if you are then shame on you. What if wee really loves you .You would break his heart causing him to not trust women. Good women like me need a good man. One who doesnt have issues with trust because girls use them. HONESTY is always the best thing. Use that to become a wonderful woman, stop your games.
2006-07-02 17:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by blackrose9902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remove yourself from that vicious circle.
Stop attracting those kind of guys.
1# your to young to be tied down. You haven't even took the time for yourself to just be a teenager.
You have plenty time for that roller coaster of emotion. And as for the so called friends their not your Friends.
You can focus on you, figure out what is it you want to do now that you can clear your thoughts. And when I say that I mean like maybe modeling,music, do you have a passion such as maybe cooking do you want to travel.
Your going to find you will outgrow things as you experience them as you mature .
Rise up above your past and move forward. Dust your feet and walk a way from the past that's just negative baggage.
Get a piece of paper, write down what were you doing a when you 1st met (TEE) now ask yourself how is your life different 3 years later.
Now write down your goals starting right now.
Just stay focused ,surround yourself with positive people.
Just always remember NEGATIVE attracts NEGATIVE
Re-evaluate it in 30-60-90 days and you'll progress to success.
You have to discipline yourself to do this you have to much ahead of you to waste any more time on someone who does'nt respect you. You can do this.
For things to change you have to change,
2006-07-02 17:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by Nay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u using wee or do u really like him?
if he cheated on u so much, then u should move on. if u love him then give him another chance..otherwise be happy with wee..
2006-07-02 17:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by answerer101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are using him, and that not good, you need to be ashamed of yourself. two wrong dont make a right, if you like
this othe guys find. but to play games with them is wrong, and
they say what go around will come around. and how will you
feel when it come back and bite you in theaaaa. so to speak,
you need to think about that why you playing......
2006-07-02 17:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by jazzsinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who cheat don't usually stop. Yes, it is wrong to use the cheater to get the one you want.
2006-07-02 17:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not young lady but if you do him like he did you your no better than he was as it stands your a better person , dont lower your standards for anybody and youll blossom into the girl everey man cant get enough of !!!
2006-07-02 17:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by craig c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋