He hates it when guys tell me im beautiful/gorgeous or compliment me. He gets angry, and starts getting up in their face.
He also hates it that guys look at me. One time we went to an amusement park, and i was in my bathin suit, guys were looking, he looked upset, so he started saying to them, "Its mine, stop looking." then hed wrap his arms around me, to coiver me/protect me.
He does this all the time, why does he do this?
2006-07-02 17:31:48 · 27 answers · asked by inthisskin22x 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ugg! Me big strong man! me protect my woman-property. Man look at my property me bang him on head! Me must be careful, keep bad men away from woman. My woman easy to steal. Man try steal my woman. All time keep trying to take woman from me! Stupid woamn easy to steal.
2006-07-02 17:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by The Grand Inquisitor 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He is very insecure, and does not want you to realize how beautiful a woman you really are. He also sounds like somebody who is very spoiled, controlling, or a little bit of both, and is afraid that if you hear these compliments from other guys, you may consider leaving him for them.
You need to talk to him about this, because if he sees you'll let him control you now as his girlfriend, what will he be like if someday you become his wife. As his girlfriend, he does not own you, and you have a say in these things!! As long as you're not flirting or doing things intentionally to get him jealous, you should not feel guilty if another guy gives you an appropriate compliment.
Guys tell my wife she looks nice all the time, and sometimes other women say the same to me. As long as they don't go beyond what is appropriate, it does not bother us at all. She sleeps in my bed every night, and, believe me, I have no doubt that I am the only man she loves, and she knows she is the only woman I will ever love and cherish!! People often comment about how close we are as a couple. Part of the reason for this is because we are both secure enough in our marriage to not let something as petty as one receiving a compliment from the opposite sex to become a matter of jealousy.
2006-07-03 00:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both men and women can be jealous and possessive, but men seem to be the worst offenders in this area. Countless guys have ruined an otherwise great relationship with their partners by being jealous. Jealous behavior lowers the woman's respect for the man and also lowers her romantic Interest Level [degree of love] in him. Why? Because she experiences him as being out of control, insecure and fearful. (All jealousy is based on fear, fear of loss.)
A strong and confident man knows and trusts that his woman is loyal and that she has high interest in him. He does not stay in a relationship with a woman who isn't loyal and doesn't have high interest in him. He has no fear that he will lose his woman to another man. He doesn't feel as if he has to check up on her or that he can't leave her alone for five minutes. He is protective towards his woman without being possessive. He knows that one human being can never own another human being and that "slavery is illegal."
A little deep but I hope this helps. Remember "make this a good day."
2006-07-03 00:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds unbalanced and seems more than likely to someday start blaming you for this, and then turn that hostility on you ... physical abuse might follow. This is a classic pattern of violence on women. Read about Ike and Tina Turner. He loved how she sang and danced on stage, then beat the s?it out of her afterward.
Be careful.
(If you're really that good looking, find a stable gentle guy and dump this psycho.)
2006-07-03 00:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds overprotective. That;s not a bad thing, he just feels he has to protect you or be your speacial one. He doesnt want to lose you to some other guy. He probably wants you to think he speacial. He cares about you and the thought of you and another guy gets to him. He doesnt like that thought so he acts all protective.
2006-07-03 00:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girlfriend! This guy has some real insecurity and control issues. Better think twice about this one before you are in too deep and can't get out.
2006-07-03 00:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by hjandf2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you dress like a skimpy whore (dont advertise whats not for sale) and he is protective (which is a good thing because you would get raped if he wasnt there for you)
put some clothes on (take them off for your bf)
2006-07-03 00:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by BoredomStrikes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like your boyfriend is insecure about his relationship with you. It's OK to look, but not touch. He should be happy he's with someone who beautiful enough for others to want to look at. Assure your boyfriend, that your not going to leave him for guys looking at you. I would tell him he looks good as well and you catch girls eying him, just as well. With that you both look good together.
2006-07-03 00:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by bree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hez doin diz cuz guyz are reklezz now adayz and u gotta claim your prize,Itz a good thing tho
2006-07-03 00:38:33 · answer #9 · answered by MMMuah!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he should take that as a complement as well and let him know that YOU are his and not to worry thenmaybe he will calm down if not you might want to consider who you are with, you want to be with someone that possessive
2006-07-03 00:38:23 · answer #10 · answered by btaflinger83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋