Well, theres this great girl named Alycia I met at soccer camp, our ages are around 8 weeks apart, and she is very beautiful. One day this whole situation came up, I told her I liked her she said she liked me back, so I didn't really pounce on it but I asked her out and she said no. I didn't know what to do then because i had pretty much just ruined it (I used txt msging and I know girls hate it when u ask them out over that). But now its about 3-4 weeks after that, we talk alot, she somtimes says I love you, ill say it back it may just be puppy love but im confused, what else am I suppose to do?
~ alex<3
2006-07-02 17:28:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if shes close enough ask her to a family picnic or a movie with a few friends so shes not alone and pressured or ask her out to aresturant as just a thing not a date in the lunch hour or something or ask her to go see pro soccer near the house have a convo on thongs she likes and open her up dont talk ask questions and take note of her preferances then recall them and use the info to make the perfectr date for her a mans got to work at it good looking women turn down dozens looking for a mate
2006-07-02 17:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you like her bc of her and who she is. not just looks but i think you should let time take its toll sometimes time is the only answer. i can relate to you. friend ;you "love" but is unsure. yeah i know how feel. make sure she isnt tryin to play you though. she is teasin you by sayin she loves you but some girls just say i love you to jsut about anyone like me .. i say love you lots.it could mean.. ifyou die...i would care and i'd prolly cry.. but it doesnt meant. hey ilove you i want to be wiht you 24/7 and i am deeply in lvoe wiht you.. does that help?? bc i am just as confuse bout this guy who is my total best friend...try to find my Q some where n gimme your feedback..id like to hear from you. =] i hope this has somehow helped you.
2006-07-03 00:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ask her out directly...this time will be your lucky day!!
Thinking that she likes you too...this time she will not refuse, that time when she refused, she just wanted you to be a real man who asked her out directly not by txt msging.
2006-07-03 00:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well keep on talking to her. Eventually friends become something more. But don't push her. Eventually she will feel the way you want her to. Good luck
2006-07-03 00:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Vira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't make it so official....just ask her out for a cup of tea at the shop next door...start slowly....what's the rush......just have fun.......if she say i love you that means there's sometimes...so be patience.....U might loose her if you push the wrong button again...
2006-07-03 00:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the girl likes you but she is not too into you. If it is meant to be, let it happen naturally without force! Good luck!
2006-07-03 00:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the first move, go in for the kiss. Good luck with whatever you do.
2006-07-03 00:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you like her cause she's beautiful? or becuase of her personallity? decide and if it's both then great. are you talking as in dating her,? or marrying her? there is a big difference, though you date who you marry. that's what i have always been told.
2006-07-03 00:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously still interested, so let her know that you messed up & ask for a new first date.If she says yes,cool if she does'nt then sorry.
2006-07-03 00:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by RedAsh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fact girls like a*ss holes. Why? Fact because they have a lot of confidence.Fact girls loike guys with confidence. Fact girls do not I repeat do not like p*ussy guys. who say whats wrong, are you mad at me. that kind of s*hit.. make sense? Good now go get her!!
2006-07-03 00:35:31 · answer #10 · answered by ( ((G-Force)) ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋