2006-07-02 17:08:53 · 23 answers · asked by joyce W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A conditional yes. First thing is you both must learn several sets of phrases. "yes dear" being the first. "I am sorry" is the second.
Third and more important than the other two is "I love you" and mean it.
One of the other items to remember is "Don't sweat the small stuff -- it is all small stuff!!!!"
Now how do I know this? I am 57 my wife is 69. We have been married 32 years this August.
Can it work? If you really want it to, yes you can make it work.
2006-07-02 17:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by .*. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are both of you enjoying this "relationship"?? If so don't worry about the age difference. Keep in mind though, because of the fact that he is 21, he may not want to have a more serious relationship with you. Does he know what love is?? Is he truly in love or is he saying this because that's what he thinks you want to hear?? Does he love you as a friend or really love you. This is the easiest word to throw around to get what you want from anyone. He is still young. For me at 21, love, marriage and babies was the last thing I was thinking about, this could be the same for him. You need to talk with him to see where his head is, because this may get tired for the both of you and one of you may want more while the other does not.
2006-07-02 17:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So how old are you precisely ? and how old is he precisely ? All you stated became that you 2 are "28 years aside" notwithstanding it would want to keep us guessing your age. it would want to both propose that you're at present 28 or likely more desirable. I gained't guess your age notwithstanding i don't have the time besides. i imagine this is loopy i'm sorry yet my moms and dads have continually instructed me to locate someone my age, i could not in any respect image myself with an older guy to be consumer-pleasant. i purely won't be able to recognize the actual incontrovertible reality that you've this aspect for an older guy.
2016-11-30 04:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number,
Age should be nothing but love , everything
Take Catherine Zeta jones for example, shes 32 and she married a 51 year old, and shes beautiful
2006-07-02 17:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by Fancy_shit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya it may work, but he is not in love with you...
Saying he love's you is a panty dropper and you need to get yourself out of that bad situation...
You are much better than a friend with benefits and if he can't see that, then move on... Friends is one thing, but leave the bedroom stuff for someone who actually love's you...
2006-07-02 17:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by kristijay99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 28 my woman is 36 we've been together for 3 years. but we have the same hobbies and alot of the same viewpoints. don't make a relationship based on the bedroom alone or your better off just friends with benefits.
2006-07-02 17:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you will have a lot of other ppl talking but the 2 of you will have to look the other way and look for suport from each other and everyone will grow to accept it, im 23 and dated a 31 year old for a little while, but she turned out to be a badge jumper and crazy
2006-07-02 17:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by B J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it could work. Why wouldn't it? Age is not a deciding factor in a relationship, it's the personality and compatability of the persons involved.
2006-07-02 17:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the real question is do you think it will work!! If you really love him than i am sure there wont be any differences! I am sure he will not care how old you are, if he feels the same way you feel!
2006-07-02 17:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by sharpie_kween 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not so much the age as it the friends with benefits that could lead to trouble.................
2006-07-02 17:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋