he always wants to spend money on me and never lets me pay him back, then when my cell broke and i was gonna buy a new one he wouldnt let me, he bought it himself, it makes me feel bad about how he is spending lots on me and wont let me spend one dime, also i should be the one spending on him, i have the money and he doesnt, what the should i do?
2006-07-02 17:06:24 · 14 answers · asked by serinaty_constantine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh, can I meet him, please???
2006-07-02 17:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by katrina_ponti 6 · 8⤊ 0⤋
That's really nice of him to do that kind of stuff for you. I think he doesn't know how to show he loves you besides buying you stuff. Have you really sat him down and told him how much you love him and that you greatly appreciate all of the things he buys you? Have you ever told him that money doesn't buy you happiness? Tell him! He's not obsessed with you... he just loves you very much and he thinks that is what you want. If he gets aggressive and angry when you tell him not to buy you things then YES... he's a little too obsessive. Maybe he thinks you like men with money... you had mentioned that he doesn't really have it, but you do. I hope this helps you. GOOD LUCK!!! :)
2006-07-02 17:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by EELY EEL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him!! Ask him why he thinks he needs to spend money on him! And if you truly love him than you should understand! Explain to him how you feel about what he is doing!! And again if he truly loves you than he will understand!
2006-07-02 17:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by sharpie_kween 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy because he seems really sweet.
But since this is bugging you, why not talk to him about it? And tell him it makes you feel guilty, and you really don't mind sharing the cost sometimes.
Hope things work out!
2006-07-02 17:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by Alisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see this as being obsessed. It probably makes him very happy to be able to do these little things for you (if he looks at things the same way as I do, they are little tokens of love). But if it bothers you, tell him.
2006-07-02 17:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he trying to impress you with things, and it called buying your
affections. and you should let him know that not the case. next
time buy him something, take him out, etc. insist that you pay
the next time around no exceptions....... see how that goes. it
may also be his pride, since you have the money and he doesnt
so just be patient with him.
2006-07-02 17:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by jazzsinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing unless he beats you, treats you mean, tries to control your life, or isolates you from your friends and family. Otherwise, he is just a nice guy. Enjoy it.
2006-07-02 17:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by truly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel bad that is money saved in your pocket. But if you can't look at this way have a talk with him
2006-07-02 17:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy the attention and the things he does for you. It prolly makes him happy to give you things.
2006-07-02 17:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should some how tell him to stop and tell him you want his time more than his money.
2006-07-02 17:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by questionhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then do he does to u , to him
And tell him .......very sadly and give him a little speach about wat u think,
But just know, he does this becasue he is not obessed but deeply in love, he loves u and he wants wats best for u
2006-07-02 17:09:35 · answer #11 · answered by Fancy_shit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋