Me and him get along fine but i know he's just looking for sex cuz he "tried" to touch me. what should i do? let him know i'm looking for a relationship and not just sex? how should i say no when he wants to have sex with me? or should i just have sex with him anyways? what should i do with this relationship/situation? Thanks for helping me!
2006-07-02 16:36:48 · 13 answers · asked by flower_boom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THANK YOU everyone so much! i know what to do now and thanks for supporting me!
2006-07-02 16:50:04 · update #1
dont have sex w/ him!! u will regret it!!
2006-07-02 16:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by Hello_Kitty_Lover<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM LET tell urself and him that there is more to u than just the hole in the middle and if he cant respect u then kick him to the curve.dont just give it up that will make it look like u dont respect urself.and if u dont have self respect for urself neither will he.so i say dont wait until ur ready not when he is and girl DO NOT FALL 4 THE I LOVE U bit either because 9 time out of 10 its just to get some...
2006-07-02 23:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by sweetlady38237 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me love and the relationship is most important than the sex it self.
If you feel same with me, do not doubt to talk to him that you do not want the sex untill you have find the right time to do it and you have sure about this.
If he mad of you,..leave him!! forget about him, as he just want your body and sex than you as a person.
The true friend/relationship/bf is very hard to find but this kind of friendship that base on sex is very easy to find....so do not doubt about this...kick his butt babe if he is not put his respect on you!!
If you give him what he want, then he will play on you and will leave you after he found bored of you coz he just intersested of your body not likes you as what you are as your good personality.
More easier guys get you more easier they dump you.
Good Luck.
2006-07-02 23:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple solution if u want to flirt go ahead with sex if u want serious relation tell the guy point blank that if he wants a serious relationship he have to wait a bit longer for sex.
2006-07-02 23:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by tom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl! don't ever give away your purity! If you give away that part of you what will you have left to give when you meet the awesome guy you are going to marry? save yourself and I promise you: you will experience more joy and love than anything (except a relationship with God ^^). I'm talking about real love too. the kind that is patient and kind. not self-seeking, boastful, envious, not easily angered, keeps no record of wrongs, and its does not rejoice in evil but it does rejoices in the truth.
I know you probally don't what to hear this but if he is greedy enough to try to STEAL something as valueable as sex away from you than he isn't really the type of guy you can really have a true pure relationship with.
2006-07-02 23:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by anointed_light 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty young .....i've been through this before myself.....just say NO, whenever you have doubts bout his sincerity.Anyway.....you yourself know that he's just interested in sex, so just tell him you're not ready yet, and see if he's there to wait....but chances are he's gonna leave for some chicks that's stupid enough to sleep with him. But if he's there for you, and respects your decision, than that's great news for you!Keep him!
2006-07-02 23:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by dun_give_ a_ damn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't recommend having sex with him. Tell him you want to wait longer, and see what he says. If he says he wants to do it then, and tries to touch you, hit him, scream, then run. If he says ok thats cool, then you have a good guy who is respectful of you and your body.
2006-07-02 23:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Why Not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have sex with someone just because they want it. Have sex because he is someone you want to be with and care for. Its your body not his. Tell him your not interested in a sexual relationship with him and move on. Dont put yourself down.
2006-07-02 23:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is very important for gettting and keeping friendship alive, if you wants to continue his friendship and he is worth for losing you, no need worry about to have sex. If he is a not honest person, lose him at any cost.
2006-07-02 23:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by Devaraj A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going out with this guy sounds like a complete waste of time.
Ditch the loser and go find someone that will love and respect you.
2006-07-02 23:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only know him for one week. dont give into sex right away cause he will use you and then lose you cause you were too easy. Believe it or not men get into serious relationships with girls that did not give it up too quickly. dont ruin your rep.
2006-07-02 23:42:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋