2006-07-02 16:32:49 · 32 answers · asked by buggi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find a guy bigger than you bf and have a great time
2006-07-02 16:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by tc_an_american 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Feelings a fickle. What gaurantee do you have that this other person will like you back and will be as stable as your current BF? You could be dumping him for a mirage.
On the other hand, if you know the other person is really interested... Hmmm... Kind of answers a question I've had for myself for a long, long time... Anyhow, if the other person is sincerely interested, then you should let the other person know that it's time to move on. Breaking up hurts, but if you really are moving on to something better, then it's a good thing.
Best case scenario: current bf is abusive and the new guy is great. It will feel like being freed from slavery.
Worst case scenario: current bf is great, but you always see the grass is greener on the other side only to learn that the new guy is the abusive one. Yech!
2006-07-05 08:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cheshire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural that's only a test if u are strong to have this relationship.anyway,we're the same problem my dear i love my bf and i don't wanna lose him but i cheat on him but i'm trying to avoid all this to be faithful to my bf and to have respect withmyself coz it's really2 difficult on ur mind if u do cheating,i want peace of mind,so girl if u love him stop now coz i already stop and it's very2 nice if u do that.ur realtionship wil be very nice if u both honest with each other.Just go to church and pray for ur cheating and ask to forgive u and promise that u will start a good life again...Goodluck
2006-07-02 16:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T CHEAT.
You'll lose both guys. Your boyfriend will go because you cheated on him. The other guy will go because you had no problem cheating on your boyfriend so he'll think you'll cheat on him too. Think "you can't have your cake and eat it too."
Your only smart options are to break up with your boyfriend and go for the new guy or ignore the new guy and stay with your boyfriend.
2006-07-02 16:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by xo_pina_colada_ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While its early, let him know that you dont love him anymore, its not that he's not nice but it has something to do with your feelings. If you continue your relationship then it wouldnt go nowhere because you are inlove with someone else. Its better to be straight forward than just keeping it to yourself, you might just hurt him if you will let him know later. Just talk to him in a nice and gentle way. Eventhough you dont love him anymore, breaking up is really very hard to do and knowing he's inlove with you, he will surely be in pain but always remember time can heal.
2006-07-02 16:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either break up with your boyfriend and go for the other guy, be unfaithful and cheat on your boyfriend, or just continue liking the other guy and do nothing at all.
2006-07-02 16:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheat on him, then have twice the amount of emotional stress that you would have with one. Then forget names and pick and choose over them until they find out about each other and they both dump you and make you feel horrible.
Or, if you truely believe you like this other guy, end your relationship.
2006-07-02 16:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn!why you do that Girl!it aint right to cheat yar!Duh unloyalty will be pay off later darling..always be true to your love one..why you dont want top break up with your man?You likes someone else right?Make your choices..DUH!
2006-07-02 16:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by Danni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u like someone else and want to pursue him then u should break up with ur boyfriend, that will backfire if u don't tell him. If he was interested in someone else wouldn't u want him to tell u.
2006-07-02 16:37:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does "have your cake and eat it too" mean anything to you.
Try to have both and you will soon be looking for another one.
MAKE UP YOUR MIND, before you make a move.
2006-07-02 16:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHy don't you want to break up w/your boyfriend? If you like someone else, it's not fair for your BF to think that you like him.
2006-07-02 16:35:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋