Whats the best way to say no to a guy who asked you out, but you'd just rather be freinds?
2006-07-02 16:31:26 · 9 answers · asked by me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do it quick, and just be honest. If he is a gentleman he will understand.
2006-07-02 16:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by zetablade 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no "painless" way to do it. The best way is to be honest and sympathetic.
Perhaps say something to the effect of:
"I really value you as a friend but I do not have the feelings for you that you would like for me to have. I do not want this to affect our friendship but I will understand if it does. I am sorry and I really do not want to hurt you."
I hope that helps!
2006-07-02 23:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best way to go, dont lead him on. He will thank u for it when hes older and not still obsessed and wondering.
2006-07-02 23:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by KAY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just tell the guy im srry i dont think it will work and they seem 2 b ok with it!!!!!!!!! but i no some pplz that just tell them 2 bak off and that they r really weird!!!!!!!!! lol just let him down easy ok!!!!!!!!!! u dont want 2 hurt him 2 bad
2006-07-02 23:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by kakie13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty. Just tell him no. He may feel rejected but he'll get used to it.
2006-07-02 23:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by ahauntedhistory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus tell him i'd rather a girl tell me that they wud rather b friends than to lead me on
2006-07-02 23:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by damademan2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that you thought he was gay. Dont just reject him...crush him
2006-07-02 23:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by HandsomeCreep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i hate you like that lol
2006-07-02 23:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by boss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell theem how you are
2006-07-02 23:39:16 · answer #9 · answered by J33317 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋