we broke up when he cheated, i was devistated, never felt so much pin before, iv met another nice guy and hes great, but i often wondered if he could ever compate to my ex who i still love, now my ex is single and is hinting at wanting to get back together, he said he felt like he could still come to me, after everything, im confused, i still love him, but i dont want to b used to fill in the gap why he is looking for something better, what do i do, serious answers only please, i really need your help.xxx
2006-07-02 16:27:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you kiddin, girl, he doesn't deserve another shot with you! He cheated on you; why do you still love him? Or do you love him at all? He can't love you, people that love someone don't cheat on them. You deserve better, and he gives us guys a bad name. He left you for her and now you really think he's changed his mind and wants you back? Of course not! He just can't be with her right now, don't let him use you anymore. Reject him once and for all, tell him you found a faithful man and you intend to stay with him. Stand up for what you know is right.
2006-07-02 16:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is hinting at wanting to get back with you - he probably sees you as being an easy way to cure the loneliness he is feeling right now.
He has cheated on you once - more than likely he will do it again. Stay with the nice guy, unless you are a sucker for punishment.
2006-07-02 18:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by kimberhill 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do .. is take it slowly. talk and hang out to see if he really means what he says. if you think you can take him seriously and you still want to be with him, try it out. there are those that will cheat and will never do it again, but remember that there are those that will be considered the "once a cheater, always a cheater" type. Be careful and let him know that you need to gain back his trust. also wait a while becuase you dont want to be his rebound, and believe me even if he says your not rebound, you are if its recent that they broke up.
2006-07-02 16:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you are very vulnerable right now and are just beginning to heal. The worst thing you can do is to take back your ex. Believe me, you are right when you think you will be used to fill in the gap. He WILL cheat on you again. His kind do not change. Don't be his doormat.
2006-07-02 16:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say "Once a cheater, always a cheater", but if he is sincere and you really believe you can trust him, evaluate whether he deserves another chance. Im sure youre an awesome person and deserve better than someone who is just going to repeatedly break your heart. Either way- good luck!
2006-07-02 16:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by lolaamor83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wiat u mean ur considering leaving a great guy to go BACK TO SOMEONE WHO CHEATED ON U AND THEN LEAVE YOU FOR THE PERSON HE CHEATED ON U WITH? WHY WHY WHY
So what if he broke up with this girl he left u for, u said u were devistated and never felt pain like that before. And now ur with a great guy. What to compare?
cheater lose, great guy wins,,, my vote is for the great guy. Because he;s great and he didn't cheat on u, u moved on and now u ready to go backwards?
Whats wrong with u? Ur ex is dog for doing what he did to u and now that he's without someone and Im sure he knows ur with someone, now that he broke up with the girl he left u for he wants to come back to u, and ur ready to take him back.
U just opening urself up to be hurt again. Think about this
He cheated on u and then he leaves u for ths girl, u meet a grat guy and now ur ex has broken up with this girl( HE LEFT U FOR) and now he's ready to run back to u this means if he can come back to u after her then when he's ready to go back to her( when he's done with u AGAIN) he'll go back to her.
Anyway how do u know he and she broke up anyway? he may be just pissed at her about something and he coming to u because he knows ur ready to take him back.
U shouldn't care about him anymore, stay with the great guy. Because if u leave him for ur ex, then ur no matter then ur ex
2006-07-02 16:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, you have to know the rule!! Once a cheater (especially if he's already cheated on YOU) always a cheater.
2006-07-02 16:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jen S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f he cheated once,he will do it again.Don't let him use you.You deserve better.
2006-07-02 16:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋