2006-07-02 16:15:56 · 19 answers · asked by alldayeveryday 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about what her parents say but don't disrespect them.
2006-07-02 16:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by Bamby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, here we go again. Religion screwing up a potentientally good relationship.
Unfortunately, you fall in the same scenerio as Romeo and Juliet. Until you are "of age", you must respect the rules of the parents.
If I were you, I'd have to secretly sneak out and about.
OR
Just lie.But that is obviously too late. You should have let her parents think you are an acceptable religion, and the same for her and your parents.
2006-07-02 16:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had a gf that her parents would not let her date.I went over to their house one day when her parents were home and she was away,I introduced myself to them and asked them if I could sit down with them and talk to them.they invited me in and we sat down and i told them that I really enjoyed the company of their daughter,I assured them that I was not into drugs,alcohol or anything like that.I informed them that I was not out to get her for sex and I would respect her and their wishes while I was with her.I told them that I was interested in dating their daughter and asked them if there were any terms that we could agree on for them to allow us to go out on a date.I made the suggestion to them that I take her to dinner a couple of time or to the movies and have her home as soon as the movie was over which was around 9:30 when the movies let ou and she would be home by 10 or I would personnaly call them if there was a problem to keep her from being home by that time.She was 14 and was not allowed to date until she was 16.After that visit,they told her that she I was welcome to take her out as long as they knew where we were going but she had to stay with me and not get in the car with anyone else.After a couple of months,she hinted around and her father asked her what she wanted to do and they even let me take her to an ammusement park that was 2 hours away even though they knew we would not be home until around 2 or 3 a.m. Her parents even told others in the area how much they respected me for approaching them the way I did.
2006-07-02 16:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by jlthomas75844 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ask yourself.
1. Do you like her OR love her ???
2. Are you serious about getting married to her ??
3. Is she have the same feelings for you.
If you Love her, if you want to marry her, if she too want to marry her.....change your religion for her. Religion is too small thing to waste a life without someone you love. If you have proper understanding both of you can follow your own religions after the marriage......
2006-07-02 16:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by X P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should respect what her religion is but you should also follow you'r heart and think about it mabey if you wan't to you can even tell her how you feel and then things will be easier for you and not so much presure on both of you unless she already knows! GOOD LUCK TO YOU DUDE!!!!
2006-07-02 16:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honor her parents wishes. Apparently they're still in charge.
2006-07-02 16:19:18 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her parents decision, that way when she can date, her parents will respect you and, you will have more respect for them, cause if you dont her dad will make your life miserable.
2006-07-02 16:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are using that as an excuse - the real reason is that you are a loser... don't sweat it dude... just move on and get another girl to bang...
2006-07-02 16:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The remain friends with her, until she's old enough or her parents relent.
2006-07-02 16:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well explain 2 them that loves got nothin 2 do with religion. it really doesnt
2006-07-02 16:19:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋