the reason why i asked that question its because some guys prefer to marry before having a kid but not knowing whether either one of them is infertile or impotent.
2006-07-02 16:14:08 · 12 answers · asked by phacs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If it's that important to you both, you could have tests to see if you are both fertile before getting wed, though what would you do if either one of you is not?
A marriage is for better or worst, and that should include the ability to have or not have children.
If you marry and then find you cannot have children, you still have lots of options which could lead to children.
Sadly, that is the position my wife and i find ourselves in, but we still love each other.
Maybe you should review you reasons for marrying?
2006-07-02 16:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can have kids whenever you a ready and actually want kids and it doesn't matter if you are married or not but you can not not marry someone because they are infertile, you get married because you love someone and want to be with them for better or worse, if either of you have fertility problems (you may have fertility problems) you work it out together, in this day and age, even if you do have fertility problems it is still likely that you can have children with fertility treatment. i conceived my son after a 6 courses of clomid and my husband and i are having treatment again now for our second.
marry your fella if you love him the rest can be dealt with when the time comes. good luck.
2006-07-02 19:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by rubytuesday. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I suppose both side can go to extremes. I don't consider announcing "the needs of the youngsters come before the wants of the wedding" says you've got a weak or unsuccessful marriage..Similar to the reverse doesn't suggest you might have one both. The foremost factor to remember is that you simply chose to have youngsters and with that means you will have to do what's high-quality for them even supposing it manner it is not first-rate for the wedding. You probably have a powerful marriage making these destinctions is not going to mean you sacrafice or endanger your relationship together with your husband..I provides you with and instance. My husband is and army soldier. He is being stationed in Korea for a year however we have an option to get sponsorship to go to Korea and lengthen the tour. The sponsorship takes 6 months typically to get. That suggests my kids would attend a university in the united states then move every time the navy deems so and alter schools. They have changed faculties a number of times. We felt it might be better for our children to head to the bottom where he will be stationed after his tour in Korea to give them 2-three years on the same base as an alternative than uprooting them to Korea. Even as my husband and that i would really like the capability to be with every other as he just acquired again from deployment, The wishes of our children stability is first and formost main. This does not mean that both of us take our marriage much less seriously nor does it imply that we've got a weak marriage. To be sincere it's relatively the contrary. Like I stated each side can take things to the extreme.
2016-08-08 23:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the grounds of being infertile then no, but if two people love each other why not. I have become a better person since having children.
2006-07-02 16:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by littlebrother1961 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you leave your partner if they were infertile and if you would you should not be getting married in the first place. Marriage is first and foremost but sharing you life with the one special person.
2006-07-04 02:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by niceaverage_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our daughter was almost a year old before I married my husband. As long as you know that that is the person you want to be with, then timelines don't really matter.
2006-07-03 08:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by Al 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont agree with it but that what spiritual people beleive in i think you should be able to have kids whenever you is ready married or not thats yo child and yo choice
2006-07-02 16:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by meckadance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the chance you take ,you fall in love get married then have a child god willing,
2006-07-04 02:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You marry because you love the person unconditionally, not to be a breeder. Whatever happens, happens..........
2006-07-03 00:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my mother had me and my sister out of wedlock...she has never been married so personally i dont think you have to be married to have a baby!!!!
2006-07-05 02:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by IrishLassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋