ive never had a boyfriend....i know im still young...im only 15....but girls my age that are so ugly and im pretty....they have had so many guys.....sometimes i cry...thinking that there is no one out there for me.....i ask god why....i think to my self....."if there is someone out there for everyone then why hasnt the one come for me yet.....i dont want to wait till im 40..."
2006-07-02 15:59:47 · 13 answers · asked by byrdie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop looking. he will come. maybe not tomorrow, maybe next year.
2006-07-02 16:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by bluepuddle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, you will have someone waiting for you out there. Just look around you. Exactly, I don't understand why the guys always swarm round the not very nice looking girls... Sigh...No someone will come, you are still young, same age as me... you go gurl.
2006-07-02 16:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by yewny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking, he will come...I went through the same dilema, and even prayed for one. God took his sweet time, and gave me one oh...ten years after I asked. But it was worth it though...cuz he's a great guy...usually....and he makes me happy to be alive. But maybe if u prayed, ur man would come faster..or maybe u shouldn't be picky(I wouldn't recommend it, but if ur desperate), I'm not implying that u are, but if u don't want to wait any longer...a guy will hit on u, and try to take advantage of u and dump u. Atleast u would've had a bf...and realize they're not all that great. But if u wait, and one finally comes ur way...he will, then u can appreciate him...and chances are, since u'll be older, u'll be able to stand ur ground, and u'll be better for it, and he'll understand, and love u for it too. Be patient, good things come to those who wait.
2006-07-02 16:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lord! You know...the fruit is supposed to stay on the vine a little while and look great to everyone.
I suggest acting. You're dramatic and obviously have very little patience. (joking) Guys will drop like flies all around you in no time....but at 15...I seriously suggest you enjoy the innocence you have now. Don't try to be older and enjoy what you are at every point of your life.
2006-07-02 16:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by silversurf88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't look for someone. You have to let them find you. Plus, you can't have this attitude of "everyone is uglier than me and THEY have boyfriends. Its not fair!" You're still very young and very immature. You just need to chill for a while and grow up a little. Only then will someone come along for you.
2006-07-02 16:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by bakerbride2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*giggles*
oh yes honey.. there is someone for you.. you know what.. some guys are looking for average girls than the pretty ones, like you. Because they are afraid to be dump. The best thing you do is to ake friends to the boys and girls.. be friendly! Be easily to approach.., and believe me.. they will like you and adore you..
You don't have to wait until 40 yrs. old..
The right one is still there.. searching for you...
2006-07-02 16:06:39 · answer #6 · answered by vhernice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont rush into nothing ,,you would know..you are to young to be worry about things like that,,just dont get caught up in the hype and by all means dont let your self-esteem go away..you just may be to good for them guys,,as to why they talk to those other girls instead of you..he will come along which he will respect you and treat you like a lady,,dont fall for the nothings,,fall for the somebodies that have goals..
2006-07-02 16:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by curious1toknow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take your time child and he will come.Trust me,it is alot better to wait than it is to go around living the life of a hoe which is what alot of the others are probably doing.just be kind and caring to all and when you least expect it ,he will come.
good luck and god bless u
2006-07-02 16:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by jlthomas75844 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is ok i've had two ugly relationships and i'm 15 alls i know is there is someone waitng for the both of us :) we should just wait and see
2006-07-02 16:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-mail me I would love to date u.
nathanael_buffong@yahoo.com
2006-07-02 16:04:12 · answer #10 · answered by nathanael b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋