My best friends boyfriend is lookin at me and flirting with me and he's not a flirty guy but my best friend decided she won't dump him how do i convince her he's no good?
2006-07-02 15:43:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless your friend is really dumb, she will realize that he is no good. However if she is, trying to tell her what is happening will be quite difficult. If she is really a friend, she should listen to you.
2006-07-02 15:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Gabriel M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is NOT your responsibility to convince anyone, even your best friend, that her boyfriend is "no good." You push and you could end up losing your friend.
Avoid being alone with him. Ignore his actions. Don't give him eye contact. And let her discover on her own terms if she needs to dump him.
2006-07-02 22:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say she won't dump him, does that imply that you told her of this? Whats her reasons for not dumping him?
Perhaps if she's not listening to you, you need to take a step back and let her learn the hard way.
2006-07-02 22:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by TheBigV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth, i kno it's hard to do it, but u would do it if ur really her tru bff. If it's too hard to talk to her then talk to her Bf, and tell him how u feel, if he ever tries to do anythin nasty, just go right up to ur friend and tell her to dump him. i mean it's really hard for u too i kno, so if she is really ur bff then she would believe u and understand u. there r a lot of guys out there for her.
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2006-07-02 22:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by Namuuna B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your friend alone, to make her be sure you are talking serious. Also you may wanna tell your friend's boyfriend , you are not interested, because if you are - you are not being a good friend!
2006-07-02 22:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by VITA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't convince your friend, otherwise you'll lose the friendship.
If your best friend's boyfriend still trying to approace you, kick his nuts, and your friend will understand why.
2006-07-02 22:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by CuriousBro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this same problem before ... there isn't anything you can do but be honest with her and tell her how you feel when he is around and that you notice the things he does. Until she realizes it and that he is no good ... she will continue to stay with him.
2006-07-02 22:46:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to convince her,you will become a fool.When he is not a flirty guy ,why he is flirting with you.give her a hint about him.
2006-07-02 22:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by spider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll figure it out on her own, the more you or anyone tries to convince her of anything, the longer she will stay with him.
2006-07-02 22:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just twll her how u feel and then LEAVE IT THAT WAY....Just make sure u don get closed to her boy friend....she might think ur lying cos u want him......Make sure that she is there each time u see him......rest let god decide.
2006-07-02 22:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋