why ???why does life suck???
just give me a reason? why does he not like me????
a person that im obsessed about just realizes that im invisible. i plainly have to say i love him. ladies help me out here i need it desperetly
2006-07-02 15:41:53 · 25 answers · asked by gianihead3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey im a guy if he dosent reconize you. hes not worth your time!! find somone elase mybe his best friend he will reconize you then.
2006-07-02 15:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, ignore the Jesus lady. You have a crush - a bunch of very real feelings for someone. It doesn't mean that life sucks. If you don't even talk to this person, how can you know you love him? Try to do other things with your girlfriends or family to keep you busy until it passes. You can of course tell him that you love him, but that will almost certainly scare him off - after all, he barely knows you exist! This is not your fault. If you can talk to him casually and get to know him, that would be great. But most of all just realize that what you are feeling is TOTALLY NORMAL and everybody - boys and girls and even men and women - have crushes from time to time. Relax and try to stop obsessing about him.
Good luck - and again, ignore the Jesus lady, she probably posts that same answer no matter what the question.
Cheers!
2006-07-02 22:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by Samlet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life does not suck. You have a life, thus it does not suck. You have a roof over your head, food on your table, and a family that, despite what you think, loves you very much.
He probably doens't like you because he doesn't know you. You have not put yourself out there to get known, or you act in such a way that doesn't appeal to him as much as someone else does. You are not invisible. You should try talking to him, you never know there might be something, there, or he might be pining over you because he thinks you think he is invisible.
Do not say you love him, because you probably don't love him, you just really really like him. you can not serious be in love with someone that you do not know the inner most secrets about. And Love takes time to develop in the presence of that special someone.
Take some time to sit with this guy, and get to know him, other than that, don't kill yourself over this guy, it isn't worth it.
Life is a so much better adventure. Love is a perk on that adventure.
2006-07-02 22:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by Gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The words that stand out are "obsessed" and "love". Obsession is not a healthy thing. And how can you love someone who doesn't know you're alive? You don't even know them. You're infatuated with them. You need to focus on something else in your life. Do something for others like volunteer work and you'll realize you have a lot to offer others. Stop this obsession before it gets out of hand. There are so many people in the world to meet and know. Give yourself time.
2006-07-02 22:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by ShellRe' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over your obsession. Life doesn't suck, you just can't have everything you want all the time. Forget about someone who is plainly not interested in you and just find things and do things in life that you enjoy, it's bound to happen that you will find someone that you have things in common with and that will make for a better start to a relationship.
2006-07-02 22:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by janrena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to stop obsessing on him and get a life for yourself. Guys will be freaked out and scared by a girl who is stalking their every move. Life does not suck, so if you are thinking this way, you are probley no fun to hang out with anyway. If this guy does not like you, dont go spouting on about love, he may get a restraining order or something. Just get some things that you can do on a daily basis and try to have a little fun in your life. Its summer time and there is no end to the outside activites you can be doing it you want to. When you are happy with yourself, men see that, and are inclined to be a little more interested in you.
2006-07-02 22:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa..................Hold on honey....you say you are obsessed with him; do you think maybe that's scaring him away? Most men don't like or want clingy females, and even if they like you, if you're that way, they will only stick around for one reason and once they've accomplished that they're off and running again.....Make sure that you aren't just infatuated with him. How did you get to love this person so much? Have you and him spent a lot of time together? You sound as though you may be selling yourself short to me....I certainly hope not for your sake......Take your time, sit down and talk with him about your feelings and see whether he's on the same page with you or not.....
2006-07-02 22:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is stupid. Plain and simple.
Any guy should be happy a girl actually wants him, unless he is super conceited, he should appreciate a girl who loves him, or even just likes him.
Once you get over him, believe me, you will be that much wiser to never let a guy grag you down this low.
I totally know how you feel, though. I was obsessed with this guy for a while and just last night he broke my heart in two. What's worse is I realized how much he lied to me about (his feelings and all that good crap).
If you want to talk, email me at madamehatchet@sbcglobal.net
2006-07-02 22:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by mistressmalice23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he doesn't see you is a problem.Maybe you should give him the chance.Let him know how you feel without being overbearing.Just ask him out.If he doesn't want to, don't take it personally.Because any man who turns you down, isn't the right one for you and for every guy that turns you down, there's a better man out there waiting for you.Never give up on love and you have to make life fun and worth it.Keep your head high and be confident in the beautiful woman that you are.Good luck.
2006-07-02 22:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell you. I like this guy too, and he somehow knows it. He doesnt want to talk about it, and yesterday, he brought a girl to my house and kiss her in front of me. I think it's a way to reject me. But, im surely not offended by it.
Sometimes, you have to understand that love is not meant to be. I love him, but he doesnt love me in return. Love cannot be forced and it comes from purely from the heart. As i like this guy no 1, there's guy no 2 who is interested in me, but, i dont feel the same way for guy 2. I just cant accept guy no 2.
Well, the better way is just to find another new guy. DO NOT GET to obssesed with him if he doesnt love you. You'll end up crying alone in your room and regretting and banging your head against the wall. It's really a very difficult thing to forget the guy you love. Ive gone tru this many times in my life, but, this is life. He doesnt deserve a loyal, beautiful heart like yours. You'll find love and happiness in the guy who loves you.
Good luck.
2006-07-02 22:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by aclau85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life doesn't suck.. we make choices and some good some not so good.. if you are invisible then i would say he doesn't care .. find someone who does you will find life is wonderful .and worth living every day.. why waste precious days filled with feeling sorry for ones self?? He doesn't like you because of him not you.. so get out there and do things you enjoy and someone will be there for you.. .give him up.. !!
2006-07-02 22:47:38 · answer #11 · answered by sandi4551 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋