Why men never call you back??

Question

I just have a question for guys out there . why u ask for girls' phone number and email address and never even contact them ? I am a good looking girl . Very tall and skinny . Highly educated ( Phd) , nice and polite and it is a mystery to me when guys never call me back . I've seen guys are much more comfortable with Asian girls ( korean , philipinos ,...) what is the mystery ??

Thank u guys , for ur answers , Cathcoug, I am agree with u . One of u asked me what is my Phd in , It's structural engineering. For those of you who think they are just not into me , well I am not the only one who has this problem , my friends have the same problem ,and they are attractive and educated as well .And if a guy is not into you he should never ask for your phone number specially when he is sober , because then there is no excuses .

Answer 1

am not interesting enough..

oh wait, you added details.. well, I think because you almost got it all and they don't know what to do with that or how to deal with it.. you see..most men want to feel superior.. how can they be with you when you are almost perfect.. but don't despair.. somewhere out there is your match..you just have to wait some more time, he'll just land on your lap!

Answer 2

I hope this may help. Many guys have a hard time dealing with a good looking women that is educated and has some or most of her life in a positive direction. Being nice and polite in these days is a gift you do not find very often. Just a guess you will find someone that will match with you. I am not a Phd but the road you are in I have been there, so I hope that may-be this may help as for the asking of the phone number many men have an ego they need to fill. So just make them work for the number with honest effort for a date.

Answer 3

I dont know!!

I'm surprised too!! I've always wondered where all the girls with Phd's were.

I hate to even mention this...but could it be true that most guys are intimidated by a girl with brains?

Perhaps, that asian thing is because of the perception that those girls are more easily subjugated?

How far into your relationships do they stop calling? As soon as they find out that you have a doctorate? (just curious...what is your Phd in?)

Answer 4

I don't always call. A lot of the times when a woman gives a guy a number it is to the local pizza place or maybe the local cop shop. I have called a couple of these before. So I give them my number and if they are interested they can call me. Getting a yahoo messenger handle is best. I always send a message.

Saying I have to go and getting your phone number is a easy out. If they give you their number they will have to deal with you later. For now on don't give your number. Give your yahoo messenger handle and get their number. This way when you sober up and think about it a little you can toss it and put them on your iggy list. lol have fun..

They are probably married anyway.

Answer 5

plain and simple if thier not calling you back their not interested...could be many reason ..personality or lets be honest not everyone has the same taste ...what is good looking to some may not be good looking to others....you may have the type of pesonality that over analysis which might also turn men away ....just guessing
and by the way to think that a guy turned you down because he wanted someone asian ....is a sterotype ....no matter what nationality a girl has goen through the same thing !!!!!!!!!! Sory to say that asian women are weak is only a baffon narrow minded person that thinks that way....not directed to you but the person who answered below me

the more than likely answer though is no suprize "MEN in general are fickled!!!!!!!!!" so cheer up you are pinpointting blame on yourself whem 90 percent chance its them and not you "

Answer 6

Those guys are losers and have alot of trouble hooking up with girls. They get your number but have no idea what to do.

A guy like me does none of that. If I like you, I'm going to walk right up and tell you. I'm warm, friendly, outgoing, and completely unashamed to tell you exactly what I want with you. Most of the time, I'm literally going to walk off with you right there and then and start being intimate with you. Rarely, you won't be interested, but I really don't care. Because the woman standing right next to you, is interested, if you catch my drift. It's not a big deal. It's pretty much guarenteed that we will have a good time and if you are a normal, healthy person with an interesting personality, I usually get close to you rather quickly.

Those other guys are perverts and don't give a **** about you other than for sex. A real man enjoys sex with you....but only because he has made a real connection with you. That doesn't mean you are going to be boyfriend and girlfriend necessarily. But, it does mean that he cares about you. That jackass who you gave your number to, does not. And he is desperately afraid that you will figure that out.

Understand?

Answer 7

You might be intimidating to men. It takes a really good man to be comfortable in dating a woman who just might be smarter than him and can hold her own. Whatever you do, never dumb yourself down or make yourself appear subordinate to any man. Nothing against Asian women but being subordinate to men is part of their culture which might explain the attraction to some men. I know it's cliche but just be yourself and you will find a man who wants you just the way you are and will call you.

Answer 8

I ALWAYS call back no exceptions its the right thing to do. Espcially when you ask for their number. Its an honour to even get the number so USE guys

Answer 9

Tina, you know, I don't get this either. The ones that call me, I can't stand. The ones that don't call are the ones that I think are actually worth getting to know. The few times this has worked in concert, I refused to give them my # right away.

Answer 10

If they don't call you back, they are obviously not worth your time nor your concern. I know that it can be tough on the ego, but you seem to be too successful to be concerned about losers who don't bother to call back. Most likely, they are intimidated by you.

Answer 11

No one that has ever asked for my phone number hasn't called me back. I'm sorry.