I am feeling kinda stupid because this has never happened to me before. I am 22 years old and seeing a 26 year old man. We've gone out 5 times and all we've done is peck on the lips. . . . . . . Should I worry about this?
2006-07-02 15:33:16 · 10 answers · asked by TheBigV 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he is shy and wants to but does not know exactly how you will take it if he tries or he does not know how to break the ice.Maybe next time he gives you a small peck,you should just grab him and lay a real one on him.
good luck
2006-07-02 15:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by jlthomas75844 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to him about it? If not, then you should talk to him. However, I would be inclined to say maybe he's taking it slow. Maybe he's been hurt before and wants to really get to know you before moving in too fast. He might be looking at the big picture instead of just what he can get right now. Talk to him, see where he stands and what he's looking for. It'll make you feel better and you'll understand why he's only giving you a peck.
2006-07-02 22:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by tinydancer42001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry some people are just not as fast as others all though most of the time its the women going slow maybe try asking him if he is into you like you are into him so there are no misunderstandings its seems that you may be the aggressive one in this relationship if that's not what you want then be careful you may not want a sixth date.........good luck.....
2006-07-02 22:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by getatjayr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't worry. He's just slow that way. Try to make it more than a peck next time and see what happens.
You don't have bad breath right?
2006-07-02 22:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 times i guess i would be expecting more too, but some people just like to take things a little slower than others. maybe it will come eventually, or maybe he is scared it will turn into something else, maybe he doesn't want to go too fast because he think that you don't want to go too fast.
2006-07-02 22:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by emile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a recent phenomenon that I myself have experienced a lot lately. I would like to think that it is a sign of respect, but I am starting to wonder if the saying that we all dread hearing might not be true... he might just not be that in to you.
2006-07-02 22:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by Roach25486 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, obviously he's waiting on your cue that it's ok.....have you given it to him? I personally think it's sweet that he hasn't made any advances toward you so far.....not many around like him! Look him straight in the eyes and tell him:"Kiss Me!" He will!!
2006-07-02 22:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of women complain that their guy is moving too fast and other's that things are too slow. just try not too force it. you'll know when the time is right. don't worry
2006-07-02 22:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he is not sure yet of how you feel about him some guys are shy like that, next time give him a big hug and a good kiss.
2006-07-02 22:37:47 · answer #9 · answered by sidekick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry, maybe he is showing you that he respects you and dont want to seem pushy.
2006-07-02 22:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by lousylaus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋