My ex-boyfriend broke up with me because I wasn't the girl he thought I was (witty, self-confident, and such). When he broke up with me, he asked if he and I could stay friends. I was hesitant at first but agreed to it thinking I would be fine and be able to move on. Well, I was wrong. I still had strong feelings for him and often asked him to come see me. He would always try to come up with an excuse so that he wouldn't. I ended up feeling hurt and bitter. In the end, I sent him an email telling him how much I hate him and how much I regret that he and I ever became a couple. After that email, he decided to cut off communication with me saying what I told him hurt really bad. He says it's only temporary and just need time to cool off. He has blocked me off all his messengers and it hurts so bad. How can I get him to start talking to me again and stop hating me?
2006-07-02 15:28:33 · 5 answers · asked by sadmaria31 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't.
Not an easy answer to hear; however the answer you need. He has obviously made his choies, and now you need to move on. If he can't see what he is losing, then show it to him by finding womeone better and not hiding the fact that you are happier.
2006-07-02 15:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by Bradly S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 02:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of his life
2006-07-02 15:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by muchacha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
until you can deal with your own insecurity...otherwise he's better off wiihtout you going psychotic!!
2006-07-02 15:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time
2006-07-02 15:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋