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There’s this guy at work whenever me and him work together he sits there and stares at me even when he walks down the hall he'll stand there talking to his friends but he'll watch me When me and him are alone together we can talk to each other about everything and anything we talk every chance we get when no one else is around we'll even make stupid comments to each other like i know you want me and he'll call me cutie and sexi. when its just me and him we get along just fine we can talk and not have to make fun of each other but when theres other people around he'll start to act stupid and show off and crap and most the time he wont even talk to me we're really comfortable around each other and we'll play fight but then i dont know if he likes me because of the way he acts around his friends. Me and him can joke around and telll each other that we like each other but that’s only when we’re alone. He knows I like him another thing is he's 5 years older then me please help.

2006-07-02 15:27:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

obviously he needs ot work on his insecurity issues.....

2006-07-02 15:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0 0

It really sounds to me like he is inexperienced with relationships, or hasn't been in one for a while.

Or really young.

The only word I can think of is silly. It would do him allot of good for himself to approach life with more conviction and worry less about what others think.

Assuming of course he likes you and isn't just being nice to you. That is the case allot too.

Try this......
At the right time, when you have some leisure ahead, ask him
"when are you going to make a move on me, or kiss me," or something like that
And provide an answer along with the question so he doesn't actually have to answer it, that is a great barrier breaker.

2006-07-02 15:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by Tyson 2 · 0 0

Sounds pretty immature to me. If he likes you, he shouldn't have to act like a showoff in front of other people. You're in tricky waters here. If he doesn't feel the same, then you could be facing sexual harrassment. If you really want to get a feel for what he's thinking - try asking to something casual. Like coffee or something simple. You say when you guys are alone it's all good. So try to get him somewhere outside of work.

2006-07-02 15:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by tinydancer42001 4 · 0 0

I say, the best way is to be honest with him. If you like him, tell him you like him, maybe he's a shy guy, and doesnt dare to voice out anything.
You better start your move now, before you regret, like i did. Dont end up like me.
Good luck

2006-07-02 15:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by aclau85 3 · 0 0

I think.. He likes you! Talk to him and tell him hoe you feel anout him when hes around his friends. If he still does then talk to him when his friends are around and try hanging out with him when his friends are there.

2006-07-02 15:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by alexa1022 1 · 0 0

he likes u the same thing happened to me and he liked me
just ask him out
also hes mean to you around other people because he doesnt want them to know that he likes you

2006-07-02 15:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by jessie 3 · 0 0

he probably likes you

alot of guys dont like to show affection for girls in front of their friends because they dont wanna sseem like wussies. i try not to show affection when my friends are around

2006-07-02 15:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

he likes you.....but........ y doesnt he ask u out.
careful ,wen a guy tells u he likes u but he doesnt ask u out it mite be a joke. but it sounds like he likes you. talk 2 him alone and say, "CMON LETS GET THINGS SERIOUS. R WE GOING ANYWHERE?"

2006-07-02 15:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by . 3 · 0 0

He needs to mature some.

2006-07-02 15:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0 0

just go up to him and ask him if you like him. no harm no foul. if he does great go out for cocktails...if he doesnt oh well his loss.

2006-07-02 15:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by evie_cooper 4 · 0 0

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