How can I keep my boyfiend interested? With out having sex with him....Like kinky things I can do....
2006-07-02 15:25:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay I want to keeo the boyfriend interested....Like we are starting to get inot kinky things but we arent gonna have sex yet....So we like to do little things to kinda turn eachother on...Any ideas?
2006-07-02 15:34:21 · update #1
Okay Then How can I do little things to just suprise him....To speice it up a bit!?
2006-07-08 15:45:56 · update #2
if it is meant to be you should not have to look for ways to keep him interested. Do you feel like you must perform to keep him it just isnt right. He should love you just the way you are without change. This can be a very good tool for you. If you respect yourself hold unto that which you believe in and love yourself and demand the same from others than you will never have relationship problems.
2006-07-02 15:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If he needs you to do kinky things to keep him interested in you, consider how much you want to be with him. At first he might be asking you for simple kinky things, but before long he will want to go all the way. A good bf will be interested even if you are not doing kinky things for him.
2006-07-02 22:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the only way you can keep this guy interested in you is to try and think of kinky things to do, then I doubt he really cares about you. Sex is only a small part of a love relationship. If that's the only way to keep him, then you won't be losing much if you get rid of him instead. Keeping someone who loves you interested shouldn't be that ridicules.
2006-07-02 22:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by jeanhack42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if he loves you, you should just be able to walk into the room and he will be interested.
But if you would like some suggestions:
A picnic in the woods, sans bra or panties.
A striptease for him.
A lap dance.
Tie him to the bed and tease him, with your tongue, feathers, hands, lips, fruit, anything that has a taste, texture or tempurature.
Read him a sexy story, better yet write him a story describing a fantasy then read it to him.
Watch a sexy movie together, andact out one of the scenes together.
Play Dare.
All of these things can lead to sex, BUT none of them need to or have to.
Hope that helps.
Gigi
2006-07-02 22:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean just excluding vaginal intercourse, there is always 69 position. Then there also oral stimulation and mutual masturbation.
Since I'm celebate I enjoy Mistress/slave relationships where the boy serves Me. erotic foot massages, cunnilingus, back rubs and sometimes snuggling him. Sometimes I blind fold him while I stroke him off slowly, wisper ing dirty or sweet things in his ear without him being allowed to touch Me.
The rolls can be reversed if you want to be the slave but since I don't switch I can not speak for that position as well, but I can tell you that communicating your fantasies- no matter how perverse- and atleast trying them is a good start. As long as you don't cross DEFINED limits such as: no vaginal intercourse.
2006-07-07 01:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by Netesha P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it soo much trust me if you guys havent had sex yet his going to be very intrested in you and watever your doing kinky stuff or not .i dont really know kinky stuff you can do but hold out as long as you can because once you give it up guys tends to change
2006-07-02 22:43:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to be kinky, but you don't want to have sex... that's like cooking him a nice piece of steak, but not letting him eat it. Why do you want him to suffer like this? You obviously don't love him if you're going to play with his sexual hormones like this...
I'm not saying have sex with him, but don't play kinky if you're not going to... you'll have him going blind with all the masturbating he's must be doing...
2006-07-02 22:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't no. if the guy just wants sex, dump him. cause its obvious he's just with u for sex, and a hottie. I'm not like that. i'd actually love them. not for sex. its hard keepin stupid guys interested without sex.
2006-07-02 22:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by 지태영 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going out to movies or have him choose what he wants to do apart from doing that thing you've mentioned.
2006-07-02 22:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by JINOX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to go out of your way to keep him interested,hes not worth it
2006-07-02 22:28:42 · answer #10 · answered by beer_pharts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋