Once a player always a player
2006-07-02 15:26:03
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answer #1
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answered by Teacher 6
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Can a dog be taught to do a hand stand? Yes(true) Is it easy? Heck no. Is their weeks of failure before you succeed? You bet.
So, how many years would it take to tame the player? Maybe 10 to 15. Could be longer. It all depends on how desired he remains to other women. If what he has got you to be smitten with him knowing what you know. You have a better chance pushing the cart before the donkey up a slippery muddy hill before he gives up is ideal that he is God's gift to women. when a guy and have a woman as easy as plucking a nut from the snack tray why stop? What do you have that is so great he will give up ALL the other nuts and settle on just you? Is the chance that you are all tat, worth your business, home and family? If you have to think about it. You best stay where you are and wait until you find a one-woman man, not a player.
2006-07-02 15:58:54
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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You're a total retard, and this dude is a piece of sh*t.
Just because a guy has lots of personality and confidence, doesn't give him the liberty to take advantage of women.
The very fact that he uses his advantage in this way shows a horribly skewed perspective on the meaning of the relationship between a man and a woman.
Any guy that's halfway decent looking a fairly smooth individual and confident enough to give it a try, can get a woman in bed.
That is not a testament to what a great guy he is, but rather to how eager women are to find their "soul mate." The first impact of a smooth operator is enough to wow a woman and lure her into some painful experiences.
Does this guy even care about the emotional aftermath for the women he sleeps with.
I knew a guy in college who was a real handsome, dark Arminian guy with real nice hair, and a great beard, and he had an athletic build and was extremely intelligent, etc. etc. etc. . . .
Anyway, he had been with a lot of girls as an older teenage guy, and started going to Church and became a real devout Christian guy and I remember speaking to him once about the change in his life, and he said to me that the thing he regretted most was how many women whom he had hurt because of his arrogant selfish behavior.
If I knew this dude you are talking about, I think I would beat the sh*t out of him, just because I could.
Anyway, I won't say that I am not a person who has a certain way with and influence over women, but I have never been with a woman, because it is pressed very hard upon my mind that the only reason the woman would sleep with me is that she likes me.
If she likes me, and then finds out that I don't care about her at all but only a fun feeling in my own d*ck, how do you think that will make her feel.
Why don't you give me this guys address. Believe me, I will make him look like something that no woman would ever want to be with ever again.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!
Seriously, though, a man's behavior toward a woman is driven by his own consideration for other people's lives, emotions, pains, etc. etc. etc. If this guy behaves like this, its not just a matter of taming him, it is a matter of humbling him so that he doesn't treat other lives so cavalierly.
2006-07-02 15:43:50
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, but he has to do it ---
And you being around him is conditioning yourself to accept his cheat and tell behavior..... put a lot of space between the two of you --- pursue your business and keep things tight with your family and friends.
The reason I'm telling you to put a lot of room between you and him is because he actually has you on the hook to be another conquest ---- open your eyes, he didn't get to be a player by being dumb ---- he's used some pretty crafty bait and hook schemes to get women ---- and there you are dreaming about being with him and moving away from your family and friends (just to become another victim) --- There are good men out there ---- yes, the hunt is long but it's well worth it in the end----- if you had a daughter and she asked you to find her a date ---- would you hook her up with a player? if you answered no, then why do you want one?
The only man a woman can change will be wearing a diaper!!!
2006-07-02 15:37:59
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answer #4
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answered by jaimestar64cross 6
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It would not be worth it! At least for the time being, it really wouldn't work out. It sounds as if you're the one making the most sacrifices if you two did get together especially if you require him to be loyal, which it really seems he isn't. So much commitment on your part for the relationship will be in vain if cannot make the same commitment.
A good question to ask would be if his honesty is enough for you in the long run.
2006-07-02 15:33:10
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answer #5
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answered by joslyndoe 1
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Sweetheart..."if you have to ask, then you can't afford." In lay men's terms this means if you're questioning whether you and he could have a good relationship or not then it probably means not....Also, what he's given you is the truth, he's given you honesty with no cut on it, no artificial preservatives, and no additives. What you see is what you get....therefore, do you really want someone who sleeps around? What makes you think you're going to change him? People only change when they possess the desire and the willingness to. other than that he may continue to live as he is for years, and there is no sure fire way for you to decipher whether or not he would change for you.
2006-07-02 15:30:35
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answer #6
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answered by Anonymous
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Sounds to me like he's proud of the fact that he can't be tamed. He's sowing some wild oats, and in my opinion, you might want to live your life and try finding someone that's going to love you for who you are. If he turns out to be this guy, then you'll know it. If not, you won't waste your time on a guy that's playing the field. Just an observation, they call it playing the field because someone always ends up losing.
2006-07-02 15:28:13
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answer #7
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answered by tinydancer42001 4
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I'd say it's more lust or infatuation. He's cute and unavailable and a "bad boy" which makes him seem fun and sexy. Bottom line is if you can't trust him, WHY would you want to date him? Take it from someone (me) who married one thinking they could be changed. What a joke. They just keep lying and cheating. Keep your feelings to yourself. Don't move and risk your job and family for someone who OBVIOUSLY isn't worth you and your time! You're worth more than that. You should want someone who has the same wants and needs as you-not someone selfish and self centered. Please be careful.I feel you're playing with fire and you'll only get burned.
2006-07-02 15:31:37
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answer #8
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answered by ShellRe' 3
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Maybe but when they're much much older. Stay friends with him. I have guy friends who are like that and from when I first met them up to now they've remained players even though mostly all of them are in relationships (??) Find someone who is into a relationship with one girl...not a few.
2006-07-02 15:30:31
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answer #9
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answered by angella 2
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A player can never be tamed, but, however, he may someday fall for someone and thus in a way he will be, but it will be when he's ready, he may not even know til it happens
2006-07-02 15:28:58
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answer #10
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answered by creeklops 5
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