that he thinks she is too good for him and better than him, but later says he loves and needs her; what is he meaning, etc..?
2006-07-02 15:15:54 · 22 answers · asked by prodigy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He means that plan A failed and he ****(ed up. Big time. So Back to plan B (that's you) He loves and needs you now cause plan C gets pretty bad.
Or he is feeling emotions and when guys feel emotions they end up doing some off the wall thing like that.
See women have lived long dealing with their emotions. We just pause for moments of silence in respects of whatever feeling that was, call up some pals and go to the strip bar. That pretty much solves all problems .
lol. Seriously though, kick back and wait for him to be sure of himself, you know, a second ago you were daintg?, or whatever and you were too good for him. What happened to that?
Besides you don't want a man pulling **** like that on you for ever do you?
2006-07-02 15:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by Tyson 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me quote a book I really don't care for..."He's just not into you.." ,....You need to understand what is being said behind the lines spoken. There are a number of things that could be going on here. Perhaps he doesn't feel worthy of you and is being as he may be thinking , kind. I have no point of reference for y ufrom what you have written. Depression could be another factor..and as well age.
Draw your boundaries and remember that time more than anything else is your dearest currency. Now make up your mind what would you rather have? Someone who is backing away or letting that person go and allowing someone else to come in?
Are you intimidating? Could be, tho again I haven't a clue.
I stand with my answer and say .."Honey,.....move on before the pain becomes excruciating. Life is NOT about having, but GIVING.....see how my few words may touch a chord...perhaps not.....then again maybe so.
YOU MATTER and that is the bottom line. NONE of us want to be alone, yet often for a short while it is for the best. I have to impart this as well...perhaps there is another person....when in anger or frustration, please remember that it is NOT the other lady's fault. perhaps you are dealing with an insecure person here. Only YOU know what he dynamics in this situtation are....
Trust in YOU.
2006-07-03 18:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is only theory, but there could be something dirty lurking beneath the surface.He knows himself better than anyone especially you. He's aware of his flaws and imperfections and the internal demons he wrestle with. Sounds like is definitely confused and unsure of what or "who" he wants. I've heard this same line from the the past two relationships which ended because the guys were cheating. I was his "good girl" the one whom he was proud of and brought around his family but he found a bolder freak who was promiscuous (always willing all the time) in which he found more sexual pleasure with her.
That's a whole different story, sorry I got personal. But ultimately, he could just be amazed and intrigued by a woman as your self. It depends on how he says it. Now if he says it in a weak manner of a punk, you might be dealing with a man whom lacks confidence with low self-esteem. I wouldn't think too much about it. LET IT FLOW girl!!!! Whatever the truth is, it will surface soon. Don't go looking for it. Take one moment at a time
2006-07-02 22:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by sheraj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depending on the guy. Most guys say this to get rid of a girl instead of being blunt and hurting her a lot. Also a guy might be saying this because he honestly does think she is better then him and that he wouldn't make a good boyfriend, that he personally needs to change in order to date her.
2006-07-02 22:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is thinking outside his emotions as a third person when he says he doesn't deserve you, meaning he knows he's going to make your life miserable if you stay together in the future. I'd take his insights and leave before you fall in love with him. To correct your earlier answer, a female orgasm does have reproductive benefits...it helps pump the semen into the uterus.
2006-07-02 23:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by mulderlx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a guy--
he meens just that. he wants the girl thats a givin but it almost sounds like he has poor self esteem. tip would be to try and boost his self esteem while not over inflating his ego.
hope this helps
2006-07-02 22:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by DM 9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying he doesn't deserve her is just his way of trying to get out of the relationship. It's an excuse.
2006-07-02 22:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by angella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to look for another as this is a nice way of saying "Later".
2006-07-02 22:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by arabslayer34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) He is a hypocrite
2) He is feeling guilty about being lousier
3) He is being nice but actually rejecting you.
4) He is playing on your feelings.
Really, guys are so damn complicated.. sigh..
2006-07-02 22:23:51 · answer #9 · answered by yewny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he feels very lucky to have her as a girlfriend, but for some reason doesn't feel worthy of her.
2006-07-02 22:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋