2006-07-02 15:03:17 · 16 answers · asked by Chelsea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't "make" someone love you, so you must accept what you can't change. It is OK to have this feeling, you just learn how to put your feelings into perspective. The woman I married developed Schizophrenia 14 years ago, and I have raised our child on my own. She went back to Germany where her family is and where their Medical system seems better and more able to help her. I stayed single all this time, and when I saw her for the first time in 10 years last summer, she didn't seem to have any feelings for me, and although it hurt a lot, honestly, I didn't know what I should have expected. I am moving on with my life, but still staying single as I need to focus on my son who is now 15. I do feel sad sometimes, but I put those feelings in their place and allow myself to feel sad as it is a valid response to this situation. I have learned to count my lucky stars and look at the positive things in my life, in that I have my health, my son is a good kid, and I live in a great area. Good Luck, and please don't despair, OK.
2006-07-02 15:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seems that we always want what we can't have. The challenge is part of the fun. But once that wears off you need to see what is left. Do you love really know and love this person or just a fantasy of them? You can't MAKE a person feel something that they don't, so try to just enjoy your life and the right person will come along, yes, when you least expect it.
2006-07-02 15:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to move on then. U cant wait 4 them 4ever or wait 4 them to have feelings 4 u. U need to also figure out if u realy love them.
2006-07-02 15:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure they know! Try to make a friend before a lover. If they still reject you moving on is best thing to do! Besides you always want what you can't have.
2006-07-02 15:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by Reepete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All u can do is move on it seems kinda hard but once u find someone or something else to focus on it's easy! Hope this helps!
-AG
2006-07-02 15:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it! And find someone that will love u back.
2006-07-02 15:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by Missylicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here, um, well, I just try to get the person's attention, but if the person ignores me then heck, I will just do my other stuff then to just sit there and wonder what else to do next. Well, um, just remember, it is the person's loss if they don't like you back not yours. |-)
2006-07-02 15:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by yewny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life.
2006-07-02 15:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by Cabana C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got five letters for u - L E A V E
2006-07-02 16:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by flirt_love_baseball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!
2006-07-02 15:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by stormyskye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋