well this guy likes me but my bestfriend likes him but he hates her what should i do can i go out w/ him or will it be wrong?
2006-07-02 14:38:39 · 14 answers · asked by canadianwoman132 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell her you like him too, and in time she will understand. It wouldn't hurt if you could ask him if he had a friend that might like her.
2006-07-02 14:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by ashlie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is: do you actually like him or is he just someone to go out with to avoid a boring friday night? Does he really hate your bf or does he just not like her in that way? I say go for it, but explain it to your friend first (or get him to). I was in the same situation when I was in high school except I played the part of the friend and my "friend" didn't let me know before she went for him. One minute she didn't like him and the next they were going out. I don't even talk to her now. I think my attitude toward her would be very different if she had let me know beforehand.
2006-07-02 21:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by bakerbride2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with him just because he likes you. Ask yourself how much you like him. If you think it would just be a short relationship or a quick fling anyway, don't hurt your friend. Boys will come and go, your girlfriends will stick with you if you are loyal. You didn;'t say how old you are but I believe that you are still young. If this boy does mean a lot to you then I guess you need to talk to your friend about that. Good luck.
2006-07-02 21:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend about this first. Tell her the situation and ask her if it's ok if you go out with him. It may not be. The truth is, guys come and go, but you don't want to lose a friendship over a guy. Ask yourself if this guy is worth possibly losing a best friend for.
2006-07-02 21:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit with your friend and tell her the situation, that he happens to like you and is going for you, and tell her that you know she likes him and if she wants you to let her try and get him or if it is ok for you to go for it, you want to give her the choice cause since you know that he dont like her he will turn her down. then while you are talking to her ask her that if it does not work between him and her if you can go for it then. that way she knows that you understand that she realy likes him but that you would like a shot at him if it does not work out, that way she doesnt feel like you are trying to get in her way.
2006-07-02 21:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The socially acceptable thing is to not go out with a guy that you know your friend likes. However, if you talk to her about it, and she says it's ok, then go for it. :-)
2006-07-02 21:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by b30954 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both have feelings for each other than give it a shot, your friend shouldn't get mad, like if she did i'd see her point, but she should be happy for you...good friends are almost always happy for there friends when they hook up with a guy they like.
_hope that helped_
2006-07-02 21:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help who you like...give it a shot...if all comes to worst explain to your friend that you don't want guys to come between your friendship<3 G/L Sweetieâ¥
2006-07-02 21:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by Brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her hold you down. Go for it! :]
Just explain it to her. She'll get over it. And if she doesn't understand, she's not being a good friend.
2006-07-02 21:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by chels♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him! your friend will get over it and be happy for you if she truly is a great friend
2006-07-02 21:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by phatpigs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋