im 15 my first girlfriend we went to movies together and then few days later she says shes sory and wants to be my good friend. do you think i should suicide
2006-07-02 14:37:51 · 26 answers · asked by amitheonlyone2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do I think u should suicide....silly...you will have plenty of girlfriends, she will not even matter in a couple of years
2006-07-02 14:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by dugu$ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who never had a date until after High School and found rejection an everyday companion. After you get out of High School many things change and hopefully your outlook will also. There are many things I hated about High School and growing up but I've come to treasure them because they made me a much better person and much better able to handle peoples abuse. In the world there will always be girls that want to be your friends only and boys that make fun of you but you will find there will be girls that will like you and people that are real friends. Learn to love yourself and then just be yourself don't try and be someone you THINK others want you to be. That will never work. If someone doesn't like you then consider it their loss and go on. Life is so much Worth living and it only gets better and better I promise. The key and most important thing is for you to learn to like yourself and gain some confidence. Being a confident person and confident in yourself will become more attractive to girls as you get older. When you can approach people honestly without the fear of rejection, BECAUSE YOU JUST DON'T CARE, then you have it won. Be a friend to all, even those that abuse you and make fun of you and don't let people get to you. Above all you have to consider life worth living and not judge it on some 15 year old experience as much as it really hurts now it will be so much better when you are 20 to 25 and you are totally enjoying life then.
2006-07-02 21:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by alagk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one should commit suicide over a person and or relation. no one.
do not feel bad though about how you feel, rejection is not easy, but you will overcome it.
do follow some of the good suggestions on the answers you already got here online.
trust me i remember at age 15 how bad i felt that i even thought i was very ugly because the guy i wanted to look at me would not.
i did not realize that there was a beautiful me and had much more time to find the right person.
look for anohter person and dont feel like a retard and be positive about it. positive feelings bring positive outcomes. remember that one.
2006-07-02 21:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by noteparece? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! Definitely don't suicide. But do get used to rejection in your life you will encounter a lot of it over the years. You are only 15. so I recommend you get right back to life. have fun while you can. life just is what it is. There are ups and downs.. You have just got to make the best out of all of it. failure is just one of life's learning lesions. always look at the bright side. okay so your girl friend broke up with you.. well all that means is now you can ask for the number of the hot girl who works at the local dairy queen. maybe even get your self a hotter girl.
good luck with life and trust me. she is not worth taking your life over
Corey
2006-07-02 21:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by COREY H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you will meet someone better and you have plenty of time. Right now, it is just difficult for you to see the "silver lining through the clouds." The girl probably did you a favor in that if she kept dating you when she didn't really want to be with you, she'd just be wasting your time and keeping you from being with someone who does want to be with you. Your situation happens to adults too. I really liked a guy and when I told him whom I'd been dating and when I told him that I'd like to have a relationship with him, he said that he'd rather be friends. I was a little hurt but appreciated his honesty and now I am with someone who is better for me.
It is okay to feel down about this and to grieve over it, but if you truly feel suicidal, you need to talk to an adult that you trust and they will get you help. This also a good time to do things that will help get your mind off of girls for awhile. Go for a run or a bike ride, participate in a sport that you enjoy, take up the guitar if you don't already play, and go hang out with the guys.
If you still want to be friends with the girl, that is fine, but you need to stay away from her for awhile (at least 2 weeks) while you calm down.
2006-07-02 21:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by runningviolin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't suicide. Stupid people here might say you should but don't listen to those kids.
Well, just try and be friends for now. Maybe something will spark up in the future or you will find someone better.
2006-07-02 21:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by serpagon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you are only 15 and I know that your first is very important to you. I know its hard but trust me...life goes on. You're going to experience a lot of heart aches and heart breaks. You may be doing some and you may have somemore done to you.... There are so many other girls out there who will enjoy being with you.
Wait until you get into college....GIRLS GIRLS GIRLS......the best 4 yrs of your life.....
So keep moving and stay strong.
2006-07-02 21:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by vertue_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes committ suicide. this pretty well pisses me off because i had a friend say the same sh*t and he actually went through with it. you kill yourself, and sure you fix your problems, but if you care about any person in the whole world, you wouldnt ever do that. you leave people wondering if your issues are there fault, what they could of done to prevent it, you put your parents/guardians in a financial bind, you mess up how anyone youve ever known thought of you. NONE NEEDS TO FEEL SORRY FOR THIS S.O.B. ima go b4 i start making death threats.
2006-07-02 21:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by killxmexkissxme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wasn't ment for you, don't be too down about it...almost eveybody's first girlfriend/boyfriend rejects them....or they're just jerks, but there are plenty of other girls out there...guys for me...i'm more of the straight type lol. Either she'll realize shemade a mistake, or you'll realize there are better girls out there.
_hope That helped_
2006-07-02 22:01:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no find another girl there are tons of em and when you get older you will feel like a retard for thinking of doing such a thing.
I am sure there are others out there waiting for you to sweep them off of their feet.
2006-07-02 21:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by ~Ronyea Q♪ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋