2 weeks ago my exboyfriend told me he was sorry for breaking up with me and he loved me and he wanted us to be together again. He told me he would love me forever and he would never hurt me again. I told him that i wouldn't go out with him again. Now, he has a new girlfriend named Joyce and he says she's all he's ever wanted (he said that about me as well) and he says he loves her. If he really loved me, he wouldn't have gotten over me so fast, would he? Also, I can't help being really mad at him for forgetting about me so quickly, how should i handle this situation?
2006-07-02 13:59:58 · 28 answers · asked by cheer4life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about him. This "Joyce" girl may not even exist. Seeing that you turned him down for a second chance, he's trying to get you back. He wants you to be jealous. He wants you to think that you just lost him to some "Joyce" girl, who once again, may not even exist. He's not worth your time. You can do so much better. There are other fish in the sea and having that one linger around your bait is doing no good. I'm proud of you for denying his invitation to be with him again. Boys are so weird sometimes, don't you agree?
2006-07-02 14:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by tingaling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him.. b/c if he truly loved you he wouldnt' have lost interest so fast. He has issues.. There are plenty more men that can love you as they say you do. Sounds like he was just feeding you the things he knew you wanted to hear probably to get what he wanted out of you until he got bored with it. Now he's on to a new victim.
2006-07-02 14:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by iwannano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joyce is probably a cover - he's throwing another woman in your face because you rejected him. She either doesn't exist, or if she does, he is not as into her as he'd like you to believe.
He's playing games. Why did he break up with you in the first place? Now that he tried crawling back, you don't want him. Tell him to kick rocks - he should respect your feelings if you are moving on.
2006-07-02 14:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by mistressmalice23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never go back, no matter what! It's never the same and if he hurt you this time around, it will just keep getting worse. There are plenty of fish in the sea - forget about him and find someone better!
2006-07-02 14:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by elenor.ferris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem with a guy, but after I decided enough was enough, I found out he was cheating on me. He swore he loved me and he only wanted me, the next day he was sleeping with my ex-friend, who was only 13 at the time. Just get over him, he doesn't deserve someone like you
2006-07-02 14:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by hilborn_army_chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what i see is two possibility's, one being that he did lie to you or the other being is hes trying to get back at you for turning him down by trying to make you jealous. For option one i would say move on but for option two i would think a little more upon that subject.
2006-07-02 14:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by clarissa r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DON"T. Keyword to your whole question was "ex". He is your "ex" boyfriend. There fore its not your concern anymore or your problem. His new girl will find out if hes honest or not. Maybe he is and they do love each other why deny them that? If he is lieing its NOT your problem! Relationships are funny things and outsiders should NEVER get involved. He is your "ex" and he has moved on time you did too.
2006-07-02 14:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have your answer don't you? he loves you so much that it took him almost two weeks to replace you!! get a grip, wake up and smell the roses. you should be grateful that this loser is out of your life and has moved on to making joyce miserable leaving you free to find a descent guy.
2006-07-02 14:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes things are out of our controll.we can't help a person feels or what a person does.it sounds like to me this guy is playing games with you.i had a guy do the same thing to me ,it was oh i love you want to be with you forever then boom he goes back to his ex.i was floored it hurt so much.and i wondered how did this person who set there and told me to my face that he loved me just forget me i was confused.but i moved on i cryed but i went on there is someone out there for us maybe we will find them i hope good luck to you
2006-07-02 14:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by dede2772 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both liars and game players and get what you deserve. Learn from this and straighten up and fly right in your next relationship. Love doesn't play games!
2006-07-02 14:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋