I love my bf of 4 months very much, or so i thought untill just recently. We've been great together. But the past few days i dont feel like kissing him anymore. I feel so bad kus i feel like im only kissing him because he wants me to and i wouldnt say no, not kus i think its cute or sweet or anything. And when we have sex i feel like im just using him to get an orgasm. He tries to kiss me and tell me i love you but i just dont like it. I used to love to kiss him alot but recently its just not appitizing anymore :/ am i losing it? i still think he's the hottest guy ever and im lucky and he can still make me laugh the hardest, and i would still get pissed if he was with any other girl than me. Is it like a phase you have when you get in a serious relationship? and if it is a phase how do i tell him with out him getting upset and feeling like i dont care anymore? i dont even think i do
2006-07-02 13:49:40 · 10 answers · asked by xbinary_dreamsx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. move on
2006-07-02 13:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay i had a just resently ended a relationship anymore so if u don't want to leave him just talk to him in times like this talking is the best way to work around these things a break from each other would be okay and you would tell him by simply saying in your own words the stuff your asking us about but also let him know you still care about him. Try talking to him about yes i know it can be hard but it should help. Oh and let it come from the heart
2006-07-02 20:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by clarissa r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it may just be a case of your harmone balance or imbalance. I think this type thing happens with all men and women- even though some do not speak about it.
2006-07-02 20:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by uniqueoneisme@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its a phase. cause u only been together for 4months. thats not that long. maybe u are getting bord of him sexauly. maybe u need to spice things up a bit. i also think u should tell him how u feel. its good to have conmuication. just talk to him, and see what he thinks!
2006-07-02 20:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by dramagirlqueen13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the same thing happened to me but yea but we broke up and i wanted him back cuz i rrealized that i loved him but maybe yall should do something together and maybe you will love him again....if not then tell him how you feel......hope i helped
2006-07-02 20:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by Gator chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a phase but it can become worse if you don't sit him down and tell him........because believe me if you notice it he notices it and he probably thinks he isn't doing something right.....so just sit him down and tell him frankly.
2006-07-02 20:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by M. Prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These days it really doesn't matter... I say go ahead and have sex with him... if it feels good just do it!!!
2006-07-02 20:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just chemistry in your relationship. no big deal
2006-07-02 20:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by peace, love, happiness =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you only like him as a friend and not a boyfriend...
2006-07-02 20:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM U NEED A BREAK
2006-07-02 20:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋