Im talking real, grown up, heart wrenching,LOVE.
Do you think if your honestly truly in love that you will love that person forever even if your not together anymore? If so do you think that you will ever love again at that level?
2006-07-02 13:01:58 · 12 answers · asked by wrokgoddess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't just fall out of love, Just because your not with that person doesn't mean you don't still have feelings for them. But the relationship just doesn't work. You can have many loves in your life. But you only have one Soul Mate
hope this helps :)
2006-07-02 13:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I also think that you can choose who you love- the grown up stuff. Part of grown up, adult love is respect, and some people you can respect and some you can't.
When you choose to be in love with someone, there are some decisions you must make- mostly about priorities...
I was engaged once (actually 3 times, but the first time...), and he chose to put shoveling his mom's driveway over me, our date, and my desire to adhere to my self-imposed curfew. No, I don't think I was selfish, because there were others who could have done this for her, or at least he could have done it earlier in the day.
Even after I'd asked him to change this kind of behavior (I asked him to call me just before he left the house, after anything his mom asked him to do, so I'd know when to expect him...) he wouldn't. Ventually I realized that he wasn't going to change, and after so many disappointments, I gradually fell out of love with him.
Even though we were engaged and I loved him, what I feel for him is more like a vague desire to avoid contact.
2006-07-02 20:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No. I think it's possible to fall out of love because someone changes and it's not the original person you fell in love with. But I think if a relationship is ended when one person is still madly in love, you will always love that person, maybe it will decrease in intensity, but you will always love that person. I do think it is possible for someone to fall in love the same way again.
2006-07-02 20:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends. Because u sometimes think ur in love. But i think if your realy in luv w/ a person then i think u will never get over them but will move on instead of waiting for them to come back or fiding another person like that person even tho u still luv that 1 special person
2006-07-02 20:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope I was in love with the boy who i thought was my very own true love but he broke my heart because I didnt want to have sex at the age of 12.
2006-07-02 20:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by Dameonette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a hard question but yes i do believe once in love that deep you will always be that way and if your not with that person you will love again i just don't think it will be like that you will get COMFORTABLE in another relationship
2006-07-02 20:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by shaunna j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how it broke up. If it was not a bad break-up, yes I do. I still care about the females I have had relationships with in my life.
2006-07-02 20:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are diff. degrees of love. In love and I still love her like I hope she doesn't get hit by a truck love. I guess I can elaborate but i'm tired...nite nite
2006-07-02 20:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
my sister and her exhusband were together since they were 16 they were together for 9 years
they were deeply in love
but one day he just broke it off..
u can be deeply in love.. but then fall out of love
and yes u can fall back in love... but normally u still have feelings for that person
2006-07-02 20:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by x0xiluvu69x0x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't. I really...I mean REALLY loved my son's father but now (5 years later) I'm over him. And yes, I'm sure someday I will love again.
2006-07-02 20:04:48 · answer #10 · answered by berkeleygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋