I have a crush on this realy cut guy. WE are friends and everything but i feel he dosn't like me that way plus hes going out w/ a girl that he really likes. I also feel that if i tell him it might ruin are friend ship and it would be occourd between us. What should i do?
2006-07-02 13:00:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has a girl.. give it up
2006-07-02 13:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are pretty smart. You are already aware that telling him may cause some animosity. If he is currently involved with someone your best bet is to be a friend to him. Time will tell if he is to have the same feelings as you do. But, It could cause you a lot more pain if you tell him and he rejects you, than if you just be a good friend. If it is too hard to be around him so much with those feelings, try picking up a hobby or a sport, or meet new friends.
Good luck.
2006-07-02 20:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by luv g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little try wont kill anybody. I say give it a try. If it doesnt go right then theres always time to set things on track again.Just tell him that your feelings has been bothering you for a long time. But now that its out, youre feeling like theres abig load has been taken away from you.Tell him hes the best friend youve ever hoped for.
But if it turns out good. Then forget all the above and do your own way.
Ciao'.
2006-07-02 20:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by Dr ICY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been in a very similar situation, and I think, if your a true friend you will not ruin his relationship with his girlfriend, you will support him, be there for him and if he is as good as you think, and he likes you too, he will do something about it. It's not wise to ruin the friendship you have with him, you could loose him forever. Be a friend, he has to make his own mistakes (if its a mistake going out with someone else) your job is to pick up the pieces, a friend in need is a friend in deed.
2006-07-02 20:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by Pazma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait a while to see how the relationship with this girl he's seeing now goes. If he really likes her, chances are he wants to stay with her. It's a sucky situation but I would definitely wait...but don't give up just yet!!!
2006-07-02 20:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this guy already has a gurl. Wait, you never know! If they break up give him time to ecover. then test your luck. Make an agreement to still be friends if things don't work out.
2006-07-02 20:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by funeebb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 keep ur options open flirt, if he catches it and confronts u about say it wuz innocent flirting + u hav 2 muv on, hez taken so wait ur turn then go digging thru her trash 4 him or find a bf, if he reacts he luvs u too!
2006-07-02 20:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by dreamerr<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically, you have just answered your own question, you know the details and what will happen if you do, so if you arent willing to risk your friendship, do nothing at all. If something else was meant to be itll happen sooner or later
2006-07-02 20:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can help you. First, if you two are fiends than that should come first. Also you need to be happy for him and his girlfriend. Obviously he isn't who you are supposed to be with right now. Cheer up you'll find someone
2006-07-02 20:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem, but my friends told him before I could, and now he and I are just really good friends.
2006-07-02 20:10:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from experience I can tell you dating a friend won't work out...There are plenty of fishes in thes..maybe if you tell him, he might only take advantage of the situation..but yeah dating a friend always ruins friendship..
2006-07-02 20:05:13 · answer #11 · answered by Natasha B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋