For the most part, I don't care about a girl's feelings, non-sexual wants & desires, etc. I don't care about them as a person (on a platonic level). I want one thing and one thing only from them... to get in their pants... and unlike most guys, I'm not afraid to admit such.
Sometimes I even have sex with girls I hate to the extreme, and take my aggression out on them by having what is known as "hate sex". It's actually pretty good because it's always rough, and I love my sex rough.
Most of my fuckbuddies don't care, because we only use each other when we're horny. But some girls I've been with do long for something more than a sex-based relationship, which makes us incompatable (maybe I'll give them another chance when I'm in my 30s and have reached my sexual quota).
I'd like to hear what you think. Am I a bad person for not treating a girl "right" outside of the bedroom?
2006-07-02 12:53:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, that's called fun!
2006-07-02 12:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by nobodiesinc 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Any woman who would have sex with a man who has not promised her any kind of commitment or care is an idiot. I don't know if it makes you a bad person or not. That would depend on whether or not you are making it clear to your partners that sex does not imply a relationship. Women tend to equate sex with love, it's just the way we are wired. I does not sound like you are pretending to care about these women to get in their pants so I would say that the fault is theirs, not yours. Just be careful that your actions don't come back to haunt you in the future.
2006-07-02 12:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by cathcoug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 01:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by sandeep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesnt..unless youre not telling these girls sex is the only thing youre after..if youre telling these females that all you want is a good time and some hot sex...they should be smart enough to know they can never have more with you and if they pursue something more than that ..that is not your fault..unless you led them on to thinking that you wanted to "be with them forever"..doesnt make you a bad guy...maybe selfish.,.but not bad because you admit thats what you want..youre just having fun..and you make sure they know that
2006-07-02 12:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by Minnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha yea basically ur a asshole . . . im a nympho and i wouldnt have sex with u . . . no offense. . but basically . .. u are what i refer to as a guy that hits it and quits it. . . .congratulations. . .tho what u are having is fun . . .its not going to be gratifying till u find someone u can really **** for more than fun . . . someday ull get what im saying . . .i mean yea im a nymph what do i know. . but i have a serious relationship and sex . . . ruff. . . soft. . .fast . . .slow . . . its always good . . . ull never be trully satisified unless ur patner can satisfy you outside the bedroom . . . also . . . yes therse fuckbuddies u refer to are going to want to marry u or have a REAL RELATIONSHIP becuz yea they want u physically and are seeking mentally. . . bf./gf relationship is all mental . . . they want to be your love . . not just your lover . . good luck with that one . . .so yea enjoy ur sex. sex is like pizza no matter how bad its always going to be GOOD . . . remember that . . . cuz its not going to change. . . but do remember one day ur gunna end up wanting to be someones love .. . and well ull be most likely just a lover . . . good luck with ur life . . .
2006-07-02 13:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want an answer or were you just posting this to show off and make yourself feel good? Because you sound like a sleazeball and I can't see anyone on here really caring about how many girls you breeze through without a second thought. Hope you get an STD from one of 'em.
PS And lay off the "F" word, there are kids on here.
2006-07-02 12:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by angib18 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You officially suck anytime you behave this way with any woman other than your sex buddies who know exactly where they stand with you. Yes, this makes you a bad person. The thing is, you already knew this before you asked the question.
2006-07-02 12:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no ure not a bad person just a stupid one , dont think ure the only one ure f-buddies are doin. they probably got 3 more just like u so when u catch some doo doo on your wee wee u wont know which hoe gave it to ya. good luck bro
2006-07-02 12:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by noname247 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your honest with them how you feel from the beginning then that is fair.However,being rough if the girl does not like that,then that is wrong.Why do you have so much disrespect for women? I would figure that out if I was you.You can be in for a very lonely life.
2006-07-02 12:56:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I think its pretty said. having sex without some sort of connection is pretty lame sex. I guess if all you want to do is "get off" fine, enjoy yourself. I am afraid I like alittle talk, affection, ect. Guess we can't all be "man-ho's".
2006-07-02 13:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but from the way you talk you seem like a virgin with a could imagination this is the second question you have asked in which you were boasting about your sexual prowess, why? go get a real girlfriend and tell your friends about it dont come on here and tell people you dont even know about your imaginary sexcapades
2006-07-02 12:57:11 · answer #11 · answered by danny boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋