2006-07-02 12:37:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ah yes, the arranged marriage process. quite common in asian and eastern european families. tell them to back the eff off else you'll never get married. cause they cant force you.
2006-07-02 12:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by dbmistry88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your family that you are not ready to be dating people you dont even know tell them how you feel about this and that you want to have a say in it. And tell the guys that your sorry but you dont want to be in love so soon.
2006-07-02 19:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by Dameonette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is tell your parents and the guy in question that your not interested under any circumstances. be firm your parents only want whats best for you. tell them you appreciate there efforts but when the times right you will find your own partner.
afterall you know your heart better than your parents do.
you could always try saying your gay to your parents this would shock them into silence probaly. it will not makle them love you any less, parents tend to love there kids unconditionaly.
good luck
2006-07-02 19:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken9090 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the dude your not interrested in having a relationship as gf/bf and ask if you could be friends,if that dont work cry your way through it and tell your parents maybe when your older you might go out with him later or something but for now you want to be friends.
2006-07-02 19:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by princetongirl449 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him. For your family's sake. Let him know that you can't date him, you're not interested, ALTHOUGH you're SURE he's a nice guy. That way your family gets off your back and he knows there's not much in trying. He probably doesn't want to go out as much as you don't.
2006-07-02 19:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to assume that you have told them you don't want to meet him.so her are two options you can try their a little mean but it might work first tell them to stop trying or you will stop coming over #2have them invite him over then be mean,rude,dress sloppy and what ever it takes to scare him off. your family probably will not try to fix you up again
2006-07-02 19:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by frog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to piss off and leave you alone. If you wanted a boyfriend, you'd find your own. If they continue, stop going over there house, that will surely end the BS !!!
2006-07-02 19:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you don't want a man and that they should just buzz off and if that doesn't work then tell them that since the guy is suitable for someone to date then why don't one of them date him.
2006-07-02 19:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Young,Sexy&Educated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you haven't told them to stop yet, do so. if for some annoying reason they continue, just go on the blind date and get it off your chest. as long as your clear that you don't want a bf, you will be good to go.
2006-07-02 19:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by cotinara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So RUN, don't walk, the other way, and tell em in no uncertain terms to drop the match-making....
2006-07-02 19:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋