She signed papers for temporarily guardianship for 4 years. Everytime I call home my little brothers and sister start crying telling me they miss me and I want to be with my family then my mom always complains about me and my brothers and sister are seperating. Basically I can't stay here!! My sister is strict!!
2006-07-02 12:18:54 · 11 answers · asked by babyface_719 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I was in love with this guy and he use to come over when my mom wasn't there. It's teenage stuff. She always stresses that I should tell her anything but she never understands. She use to beat me with extension cords, speaker cords, game controllers, even shoes!!
2006-07-03 09:55:22 · update #1
Why don,t you Tell your sister that you don't want to live her any more because she is too st rick and you want free time , So you are asking her to let you go back to your mom and your other sister, lot of people make mistake in their life and then sorry later
about it, I guest that your mother was having problems with raising all of you, or you was giving her problems, which she could not coop with, why would you want to go back into the same situation as before, About your sister your are now living with, she spend her hard earn cash on you, now you want to leave because she is too st rick, think about it how she is going to feel about the situation, Dont worry be happy.
2006-07-02 12:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes a parent can't be a parent the way society sees them doing it. Your mom may have issues with you that have nothing to do with how you've acted, what you've done etc. Sometimes a parent chooses to put aside a child because of something the parent doesn't want to deal with, or for some reason they are jealous of the child, it happens.
If you are with your sister for 4 years that would mean you are probably somewhere between 12-14 right now. That's pretty young to be sent to live elsewhere.
If your sister is "strict" it might be that she's strict for a reason. Perhaps she is taking her guardianship dutes seriously and wants to ensure that you have the best upbringing possible so that you can be a happy, responsible person.
Unless she is beating or abusing you, refusing to feed you etc., you may not have any reasons to be removed from her care. However, if you do get removed from there, it probably won't be to go home to your family. Instead it will possibly be to make you a ward of the court...something you really don't want to be.
We don't know what we have until we don't have it any more. It takes absence to make us appreciate those in our lives. Your sister wants you to be safe, happy and healthy and she really didn't have to take you in...she could have simply ignored things. I think you should try to make this work and try to enjoy being part of a family that cares about what happens to you. At some point I imagine there will be visits between you and your brothers/sisters etc.
You can do this and you can make it a great experience, half the battle is doing what you can to accept, have the right attitude and appreciate everything you do have. It will all work out. Give it a chance and you might find it's not too bad with your sister.
Good luck and take care
2006-07-02 13:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never said how your mother is with discipline. Is she "not strict"? Sometimes, it seems as if the person caring for us is crushing us with rules and expectations, but when you're older, you'll thank them when you realize what a great person you've become. But, without knowing what your definition of "strict" is, I'm playing this opinion from my point of view. It may not be the same as yours. Have you asked anyone about being able to see a therapist to talk about how hurt you are being removed from your family situation? Good luck!
2006-07-02 12:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by my3girls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey that sounds bad u have to grow up with ur brothers & sisters ank ur mother in a nice way maybe she will let u go back
2006-07-02 12:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell us more. why did she send you there.cant you visit your brothers and sister? need more to go on. and being strict isnt such a bad thing. you will appreciate it in the end.
2006-07-02 12:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur mom cant handle u then I am sorry but u gotta except what u get vs living on the street and stuff!
2006-07-02 12:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by thebrighterside2008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you ask your mom, she is the only one who knows the exact reason why. Good luck!
2006-07-02 12:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by Maymie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but u must have done something to force ur ma to send u to somewhre else
2006-07-02 12:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by woof 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must have been a good reason.
Good luck.
2006-07-02 12:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she cant handle lots of children
GOOD LUK!!!
=)
2006-07-02 12:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by LiLaZn_tEaRs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋