What I mean is if a couple used to have sex but stopped. Is that okay even if its for religious reasons
2006-07-02 11:53:53 · 8 answers · asked by gentlgodis 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never ever have sex if you dont want to. Its always more that ok to say no or just stop. I did with my b/f for religious reasons as well its in the bible to abstain and i missed up but no more and not again unitl i get married and if you bf cant take it hes not for you.
2006-07-02 11:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Xenia J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
abstinence truly is hard for whatever reasons but sometimes makes the relationship less complicated.. you have to go with what you feel is right and trust that its the right thing for you no matter what people may think... i understand where your coming from because im in church and really i shouldnt be having sex but cant seem to stop...
2006-07-02 11:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by wildflower776usa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saving yourself for that special person will surely make that person feel that you are worthy of him/her. No, abstinence is not wrong, but it is not the "popular" thing to do. I am saving myself for that special lady. I am dating right now, but we have agreed not do have sex (any kind) until we get married, if we do get married.
Sex is a beautiful thing, when it is held within the marriage. Outside the marriage, sex is just passion. Passion is not everlasting, but love and respect are. If you have begun to respect yourself by not having sex outside marriage, I applaud you.
2006-07-02 12:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by Inquisitive Macho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you 2 have matured. If it is because you have become Christians so much the better for your testimony. Is that a sign that something is wrong. Absolutely not!! I applaud your decision. I hope you stick with it until you are married.
2006-07-02 11:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok to want or have abstinince in a relationship. If your partner loves you they should respect your choices especially for religous reasons and if they dont then they are not worth it. Nothing that i can think of would be wrong but i guess that has to be from your view.
2006-07-02 11:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if the 2 of you made the decision together it is fine.
2006-07-02 11:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by prmb1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the two of you. It is something you need to discuss with your partner and try to resolve.
2006-07-02 11:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, TOTALLY!!!! Good for you!!!
2006-07-02 11:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by lovingarmywife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋