Maybe you can help me by sending me a letter that i could give her, i just dont have the heart to break up with her by talking. Help please!?!
2006-07-02 11:36:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be nice, don't insult who she is or make her feel undesireable just say you think you'd both be better off moving on. it happens, she'll live, think of it this way you are actually doing her a favor by letting her go to find someone who really wants to be with her.
2006-07-02 11:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Let me break it down to you woman. This right here is just not working!I feel you and I aren't connecting. I am trying to have a serious relationship I'm not trying to find more friends and you fall into the friends category. Let's take a break and test the waters a bit. Maybe we will both be happy that way!
2006-07-02 11:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by babyface_719 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her or go tell her face to face and tell her it is not working for you and you wish her a good life. Get out of there fast because either she will try to kick your a ss or try for the next couple of hours to talk you out of it. I would get my stuff back first with out her knowning or you will loose everything she has of yours.
I found it easyest to just not answer her calls any more or just tell her it is not working and to quit calling when she does get ahold of you. No need for a big fight which everyone wants to have in a break up.
2006-07-02 11:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Itsme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's this great Simpsons episode when Bart strings along Edna Crabapple when he answers a personal she puts in the paper. See if you can get a hold of it Homer has some great lines you could use.
Or
You could grow some balls and tell her the way you feel face to face
2006-07-02 11:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by Whodaman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT YOU DARE CALL HER OR LEAVE A MESSAGE THAT IS SO RUDE... BE A MAN AND GO SEE HER AT HER PLACE SO SHE CANT BRAKE NOTHING... TELL HER STRAIGHT I THINK WE SHOULD JUST BREAK UP I FEEL LIKE THE RELATIONSHIP IS NOT GOIN ANYWHERE RIGHT NOW..AND SHE'LL SAY WHY, IS IT SOMETHING I DID? AND YOU SAY, NO I JUST NEED SOME TIME APART... HUG HER SAY YOUR SORRY YOU DIDNT WANT TO HURT HER.. AND GET UP AN LEAVE....
2006-07-02 11:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by unicorncatering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you value her friendship, but you don't think you guys are going anywhere. Tell her the truth. She will appreciate it more than if you make stuff up. Good Luck.
2006-07-02 11:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT A COWARD... U WANT WHAT??? YAHOOO ANSWER PEOPLE TO SEND A LETTER TO YOU THAN U COULD GIV E HER??? WDH???? MANNN
WHAT ARE THE GOOD WORDS?? I THINK "I WANT TO BREAK UP WITH MY GF, OUR FRIENDSHIP ISN'T GOING ANYWHERE!" WILL DO JUST FINE.. YOU DON'T NEED ANYTHING ELSE..
2006-07-02 11:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by AzNgUrL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"look ur a great person, your beautiful, your sweet, your kind, but..... (pause for a moment) i just dont think we are ment to be. your a wonderful person and someday youll find a person that can love more than i ever could, who will appreciate u for everything." make sure u dont say " ur not my type"
2006-07-02 11:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by beach babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is steel your nerves, and be honest. If you have one single big reason that you're breaking up, tell her. Be polite, but be honest. Don't drag it out, either. Be frank, to the point, and be gone...breaking up is hard to do...
2006-07-02 11:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What all have u tried to stay with her? If u dont want her anymore then just tell her... BE A MAN
2006-07-02 11:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by Lookinstr8over 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋