answer me please?? please?

Question

I don’t now if I am expecting to much or something is wrong with me? My bf and I been together for about 8 month we don’t see each other a lot because of school and work, we see each other at work but after work I go to school, if we see each other I go to his place and we have sex and that is it. He can’t come to my house because my mother won’t like him so he didn’t meet her. So on Friday it was my best friends b-day so I couldn’t go see him, and on sturdy I was suppose to see him but my sister got an accident so I went to see her to the hospital and I told him I was calling him and telling him what was going on, but he seems not to care, and I called him back that night to just talk to him and he was cleaning up and he said he will call me back which he never did. my Question is that he didn’t even call me to ask how my sister was doing if she was ok? He didn’t call me all day today I had my phone on me all day all my friends were calling to ask. And I don’t want to call him and explain my self is he ignorant or WHAT? And if he call me what should I say? Please help me answer me

Thanks for ur support guys I really appreciated. I don’t want to call him and show him that he made me mad by not calling me; I don’t want to show him that I was waiting for him to call me. If I did that he is going to think that he have me hooked that he is going to keep doing it, I am suppose to go to see him tomorrow, I don’t want to just call him and say hi, like nothing happen. What do u think I should say when he calls me, what kind Q should I ask him? I don’t now what is wrong with me I love him but I dint want to be treated like this neither. I don’t want to cry over this.

Answer 1

OK no one on answers knows the guy. So the best answer you can get on here is at best uneducated. Talk to him. See what he has to say why he didn't call. Let him know how it made you feel, and go from there. That's the best I can do with out knowing him.

Answer 2

Seems to me this guy is only with you for the sex and does not care about you at all. Of course you should go to your sister when she is hurt (is she OK?) and he should be there for you, call you, support you, ask what he can do to help, not clean his place as a priority and forget to call you back. This is like a test to see if he cares and he failed badly. Don't cry for him, hes not worth it. Just move on. Good luck girl!

Answer 3

I think you really know what's going on.

How long are you going to let this boy treat you like dirt and use you for sex? Your sister was hurt so badly she was in the hospital, but your boyfriend didn't care, or bother to call?

You are more than your body. Find a boy who treats you like you deserve to be treated.

Answer 4

Some guys are kind of selfish, and are only after the sex...if it seems like he only cares about that, I would dump him and find someone better. I would talk to him first and see what his explanation is, some guys are shy and have trouble sharing their feelings. Good luck!!

Answer 5

Listen girl he is just using you for a booty-call.You have to understand if he really loved you then he would understand.so, you need to tell him that you're through with him if he dosen't straighten up and if he dosen't change then that shows you that he dosen't care. It's all about the sex. He's not taking you serious!

Answer 6

Well sounds like you don't like him, you LUST him. I hate to say that but I don't think that he likes you because he ignores you.If i were you I'll just talk to 'em about it.it's better then just thinking to yourself "hm what's going' on?"Just call 'em or talk and talk to 'em.Be honest with 'em. think about all little things that happened recently.Maybe he thinks that you were lying about your sister or your friend's birthday?or maybe somebody told him something bad things about you?
Or you did something and he got mad at you?Call 'em and find out or tell your friends to talk to 'em and tell you all the details after.If he'll call you don't bring it up and act like nothing happened you might ask him about later on.Don't act mad or upset.Don't be mean to 'em either.

good luck and have fun

Answer 7

Tell him what you've told us. He might have reasons for acting the way he has, and he might not realize that he has been insensitive. But if you talk with him and he doesn't respond positively, you should probably assume that he doesn't care about you, in which case you should leave him.

Answer 8

if he tries to call you, don't answer the phone. Ignore him for a while. He'll come running back, unless he has someone else on the side, then you'll have your answer.

Answer 9

simple answer. Dump him unless you want to keep getting used. He's probably cheating on you if he doesn't find a way to be with you unless to have sex

Answer 10

Has he ever met your sister. Yes, he should have called to ask how she was but if he's never met her, I don't know about it. Best of luck to you.