Supposing a you meet a guy, or suppose he is a good friend & he gets heavily turned on by one or more of your private parts and wants to have "access" to them, i.e. probably touch and kiss your parts (legs, shoulder, navel etc.) He expresses this desire to you & he promises that he will NOT have intercourse, just he wants to touch/feel and kiss your parts.
Assuming that you kind of like him, but you already have a steady boyfriend or husband. In this case, would you allow him to access your private parts - provided that there is no intercourse & it is hopefully just a one-time fling?
2006-07-02 11:33:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no I would say no. If I knew him really well then maybe but otherwise nope. The thing I would be wondering is would he want more? Does he do this with other girls? What would he consider to be crossing the line?
2006-07-02 11:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, I would have to say no! To ask her, although she may be flattered, I think she would be more offended. This would be crossing the line in both cases and you would be pushing her to do something that she really shouldn't be doing, she has a boyfriend and the touching/kissing of private parts should stay between them. Sorry for the bad news...
2006-07-02 18:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely not. This would be crossing the friendship line in a major way that would permanently taint a relationship.
2006-07-02 18:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not female but I know of a few that do that. And have a one time fling.
2006-07-02 18:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by Itsme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No cause all those type of things will lead to intercourse.
2006-07-02 18:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO....hell no. hell NO!! That IS STILL CHEATING in my books....How would you like it if your steady girlfriend or wife did that?? Uh, if you are any kind of human you'd be p!ssed!! I never would, I wouldnt want my husband to do that...and I know if I did...(NOT THAT I WOULD EVEN WANT TO) but my husband would KILL someone....
2006-07-02 18:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by lovingarmywife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Any kind of affection that is giving sexual pleasure to one partner or the other to me is cheating.
2006-07-02 18:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way, i would never do that, because your boyfriend or husband trusts you, and if you allowed him to then you would feel guilt and especially if your bf/husband found out
2006-07-02 18:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by jordan r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't. He is just curious, and I'd just let him continue to be curious until I was out of my current relationship.
2006-07-02 18:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of obvious no. I would stay commited to my bf thank you very much.
2006-07-02 18:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋