Are you both old enough to get married?
If so, start planning for THE DAY!
WHEN....WHERE...HOW many friends,...family, do you want to witness...THE WEDDING? (NOT, the actual event!)
Where do you plan to live? What kind of furniture do you like? What kind of foods do you like?...Do you BOTH plan to cook?
There 's all sorts of questions...and conversations...with plenty of of time to decide...whether or not YOU NEED TO GET MARRIED
to (finally) have sex...or, YOU NEED TO HAVE SEX, so you want
to get married...SOON.
A relationship without sex...is called "PLATONIC", meaning that it
is between partners who may have THOUGHT ABOUT SHARING
PHYSICAL/ SEXUAL LOVE at some point, but have "decided" that there may be a HIGHER ( non-physical),...IDEAL,... an INTELLECTUAL or SPIRITUAL GOAL achieved thru the relationship.
If you're constantly...THINKING, TALKING...about keeping your minds OFF HAVING SEX, chances are everything you see will bring you BACK to question your decision to delay your DESIRE TO HAVE SEX.
According to CARL G. JUNG , any battle between the SUBCONSCIOUS mind, and the CONSCIOUS MIND is a losing
battle...if you BOTH believe sex before marriage is TABOO ("wrong")...and your LOVE for each other is true...then get married...ASAP...or PREPARE TO LOSE THE BATTLE...or,
WIN THE WAR...by practicing "SAFE SEX".
2006-07-02 12:25:27
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answered by curious1inUS 2
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It is possible to have a relationship without having sex. You need to keep it fresh though. Tease him sometimes by wearing short clothes or just your undies around the house or in the bedroom, but don't let him get any closer than just talking whilst you are in these clothes. Take showers together, but don't let him touch you. These sort of things keep him interested and he will be very ready by the time you get married. If you want to keep our mind off sex then you just have to have fun together, do simple things such as go to the movies, bowling, take a trip together somewhere, and just have fun with each other to make the love between you and him stronger.
I hope I was able to help, good luck!
2006-07-02 18:31:00
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answered by cutie pie- u ready 4 me? 2
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Yes it possible to have a relationship without sex. If you ask me ex is really a pleasuure thing. You do that if you want to. If you and your boyfriend promised but still talk about it then dont break your promise. You could do other things like go to the movies, go shopping, go to the movies, visit friends, ride around(if have a car), go out to eat, play games, go out of town together, go to the park, go swimming, play a sport, go to a recreational center, etc... Theres plenty of things you could explore without having sex. Trust me.
2006-07-02 18:28:00
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answered by Princess P 2
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I had 13
2006-07-02 18:25:05
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answered by Yannis K 3
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well i dont think there can b a relationship without sex but if u are serious about it then yea it is possible! but u cant ask for what activities wud b good u have to go out and be dare devils and try new things like sky diving lol or summin go travlin do summin that u havent done b4 and u shud b fine!!!
2006-07-02 18:24:53
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answered by mztraye 2
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I believe it is possible to have a relationship without sex. If you need to keep busy play cards, games, video games, go for walks together, movies, just anything you can think of to help keep your mind off of it. Good Luck.
2006-07-02 18:26:47
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answered by lostinlove 6
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Definatly You just need to find someone who doesnt want sex to be the main part of a relationship..some people dont even want to have sex for whatever reason..im sure there is someone out there that is compatiable with you.
2006-07-02 18:26:24
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answered by deadly_nightshade5 4
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you could try looking up tantric sex thats sex normally without intercourse.
but typically a relationship is just friendship until sex enters into it in one way or another.
it depends on your definition of sex.
the clinton definition of oral sex as we know is oral is not sex (as in ex US president that is if your wondering)
there are plenty of activites out there that you can do that will keep your mind off sex. but it depends on what you like to do. just go out and go to a different venue everyday, do something different everyday see your local phone book for diferent organisations and things in your area.
2006-07-02 18:30:52
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answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6
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Trust me, if you save yourselves until after marriage, it will be a GOOD THING.
I say this from experience. I'm almost 40 now (holy crap) and didn't wait. I was a very bad boy. Looking back....I wish I would have.
I blame everything bad in this country on Hollywood and their skewed value system.
2006-07-02 18:25:53
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answered by Bruce B 4
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try not tp talk about it and just enjoy each other the talking makes it hard to not do.i think it is ok to not have sex right now.also dont go to shows with lots of sexual parts in them.
2006-07-02 18:27:03
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answered by lcayote 5
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