They call him all the time, and email him. Im not in touch with any of my old partners, because they are twats. Am I being weird about it?
2006-07-02 11:20:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It kind of shows his maturity, who made the rule people have to hate each other after they break up? If it bothers u so much say something, but i don't know why you are so insecure, he is with YOU, right?
2006-07-02 11:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You know, I was talking with my son this morning, he is 20 (and a good kid, he will make a great catch in a few years when he is ready to settle down and get married) and he mentioned he had to call an old girl friend because it was her birthday. He said he does this just because at one time they were friends and while they are not dating, he does not hate them.
He said when he sees them around it is nicer if they can talk and be friendly rather then try and avoid each other. I asked him if he would ask her out again, he said no, but she is still a friend.
He has done other things with old girl friends, but just as friends. There was one girl who he will avoid though as she used to stalk him.
He also emails them regularly.
He has no reason to lie to me about his relationships, so if you feel you can trust this guy, then I would see no problem.
2006-07-02 11:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry if hes talkin to ay of his ex's. You shold have that type of trust and bond where he wont do anything. He should be able to let you know if something is going on if he really like you. If you dont talk to your old partners then thats your opinion because everyone is not the same.
2006-07-02 11:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by Princess P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not being weird, i'd feel exactly the same! You should tell him how you feel. Or maybe you should just trust him otherwise whats the point in your relationship if you haven't got trust. But even if he is loyal, i still understand how it would annoy/upset you. His ex girlfriends sound like their not over him. As i said if it does bother you that much talk to him ;-)
2006-07-02 11:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am still friends with all but one of my ex'es. I don't email them nor do they call or me call them. But if I see one of them I am going to stop and say hi and hows your moma and on and on. I request my lady to be the same way with their ex'es. I don't want to have afight with my exes or hers every time we see them. So what is the big deal with being freinds? This don't make him a bad person but he needs to be told to slow down and if he don't find you a freind or two be it your girl freinds or who ever and name them George and Bill and talk to them a lot on the phone. Even put him off a couple of times to talk on the phone to this make belive male freinds. When he gets mad about it tell him you will meet him halfway. You will stop talking to guys if he will stop talking to his exes. Ex or not they are still women so it is the same thing. Now if he is talking about the kids they have together maybe you should either get more involved or butt out.
2006-07-02 11:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by Itsme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, I keep in contact with a number of them. I actually have one ex it really is type of a brother to me now. It relies upon on the breakup, because the more serious this is the extra sturdy that is to be acquaintances.
2016-11-30 04:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got news for you. You're not his girlfriend. If you were he would devote his attention to you and not waste time with exes. Does he remember why they are exes? Try reminding him that you aren't an ex in a very sensual and tasteful manner.
2006-07-02 11:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. pay attention to all of those littlet things. If you find yourself letting a lot go for the sake of being together... that could mean you are doing all the work.. it is a two way street.
2006-07-02 11:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by BeezKneez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you trust him? has he done anything to make you not trust him? if not then dont worry. i know alot of guys that keep in touch with there ex girl friends and girls that keep in touch with there ex boyfriends. dont worry bout it.
2006-07-02 11:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THOSE ARE CALLED FALL BACK CHICKS... NOTHING REAL BUT THERE JUST IN CASE YOU LEAVE OR THE SEX STOPS. SO WHAT DO YOU DO. YOU MOVE ON. IF HE FEELS THE NEED TO HAVE THEM AROUND TO "FALL BACK ON" THEN HE IS PLANNING ON NOT HAVING A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU... IF YOUR UNSURE ABOUT A RELATIONSHIP MOVE ON..
2006-07-02 11:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by unicorncatering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋