My b/f and i are at it again. We like any relationship are having are ups and downs. He met this girl on myspace and I can tell he's strating to liek her. And he told me she really really likes him, thats what she told him. Well my bf and i are in a long distnace relatinoship and i recently went to go visit him and we've been apart again for about a month cuz i home now and the new girl that he like lives further away than i do but he wont coem to see me but next month is going to spend a week with her where she lives. I know thats not right. but i asked him if he loves me than why is he going to see her not me and he says he wont do anything cuz he loves me. I find it hard to believe anyways. but the real reason he says he is going is cuz there "friends" and they have more in common together than he and i do. My ? is basically does commonalitly really matter if you love someone no matter what? Please i could really use helpful advice at this time in my relationship. PLEASE!!
2006-07-02 10:59:54 · 2 answers · asked by Xenia J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget him he is using you both. take it as a learning experience and move on
2006-07-02 11:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to dump the idiot and quit being the victim of his lies and betrayal. I know you can't be having fun worrying about what he is doing and if he is lying to you all of the time. You are going to go prematurely Grey. Go out, have fun and meet new people. You have two options: Continue being a victim, or stand tall, keep some dignity and walk away.
2006-07-02 18:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by hisandhers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋