ok my b-day has passed my mom got me a present,my aunt gave me a present,and my grandparents gave me a present. ur probally wondering how about my dad. well my parents are devorced so i see him on the weekends. i was wondering where is my present? so i asked him and he kinda forgot and he sad i'll give it to u tommorow..and two days passed and he didn't get me one...so u tell me if that is sad...he had soo much time to get one he has alot of money and won't get me one..so tell me if that is sad
2006-07-02 10:19:13 · 16 answers · asked by tooba ash 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i was crying to my mom and she called him and he didn't care...
2006-07-02 10:21:22 · update #1
Very sad indeed,I'm sorry.
2006-07-02 10:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is sad that your dad doesn't remember the birthday of his child. Talk to him and tell him how you feel - or maybe write him a letter. He needs to know how you feel and that he screwed up.
Try not to let it get to you, I know it's easier said than done - you have a lot of people who love you very much and your dad is missing out by being a jerk. He will realize one day (hopefully sooner rather than later) everything he missed and how important you really are to him.
2006-07-02 17:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad that you get to see him on the weekends. At least he is apart of your life. I bet he probably has a lot going on in his life right know. Maybe you should ask him if he will take you out to dinner for your birthday so you two can spend some time together.
2006-07-02 22:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by girlpower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You no this story sounds familiar I haven't spoke to my dad for about seven years and he hasn't seen his grandchildren. But you no what I'm better off with out him because you have your mother and all the other people in your family who cares about you if your father didn't send you something for your birthday i no its hard but don't think of it as not getting anything think of it as gaining something respect for the ones who are their for you its going to take time to get over this because I still think about my dad but life goes on and at least your not alone in the world like other people!!! Happy b-day and hang in their and talk to people they can help God Luck!!
2006-07-02 17:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by amulz1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sorry for you, but I don't want to be rude, I want just to be honest with you, if you wasn't in his mind, you wasn't in his heart either.
But that's OK, you will survive, even if it is sad, you surely have a Great Mom, who loves and care about you.
This is the life, we can't have all what we want or what we need. Take it easy, one day, he will apologize.
2006-07-02 17:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by nadira456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it sad and i feel sorry for you. If i could get you one i would but the only present i can give you is this answer.
Hope you don't get other problems like this with your dad.
My family is devoured and it the same way but different way.
2006-07-02 17:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by Zeev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes--it's sad--but join the club--there are lots of so-called "Dads" out there like this--my Dad quit talking to me because my boyfriend is a biker! The way I look at this--is that it is HIS loss--NOT mine--I have made it 34 years without his help and/or support--I will continue to make it just fine!
2006-07-02 17:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by wants to work at home 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad that he didn't care. It's not sad that he didn't get you a present, though. A gift is a gift, not an entitlement.
2006-07-02 17:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by Dave R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like my dad. And yes that is sad. Not so much that he didnt get you a present but that he forgot to get you one.....Pathetic....I am sorry about your deadbeat dad. **HUG**
2006-07-02 17:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's sad. But don't blame yourself for his ignorance. It's his own stupid fault he forgot, but deep down I know he cares about you, even though you might not think he does, and he might not show it, he still does, trust me.
2006-07-02 17:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by Why Not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but the older you get the more people will forget soon they will all stop
2006-07-02 17:36:12 · answer #11 · answered by john boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋