a problem making a decision...either you are damned if you do or damned if you don't.....But in the end you have to do what's best for you regardless if it hurts someone, even though you did not mean to hurt them???Right? Honest opinions!!!
2006-07-02 10:00:51 · 7 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Man ... I've hurt other people , perhaps unnecessarily, by making rash decisions. That's where the haunting truly begins ... and never ends. Go very slowly down this road ... think carefully before acting. If you make the wrong decision it can haunt you for the rest of you life.
2006-07-02 10:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're damned if you do and damned if you don't, that is called a catch 22.
They are the most difficult, challenging kind of desicions we have to make.
Just pick the one with the least amount of collateral dammage.
See if you can cushion the blow, as best you can and hope for the best.
Remember, no matter what negative backlash, you might get, will disappear with time. It will all be history, eventually.
2006-07-02 10:08:43 · answer #2 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what is right from a moral and objective point of view. Sometimes it might hurt you or it might hurt someone else, but if you do the right thing it will work out for the best in the end.
2006-07-02 10:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I don't know what to do, I usually don't do anything and wait for the other person to make a move. Also, maybe you could talk to the person you are about to hurt and see if you can work out another solution. They might be hurt but they might understand.
2006-07-02 10:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by Stella Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes life is a two sided sword you have to balance thing just right or they side off some how and cause a problem or works out
2006-07-02 10:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by Paul G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what feels the best, and screw everyone else, its your life and you have to live it.
2006-07-02 10:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by sobrien 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL THEM YOUR SORRY. iF THEY FORGIVE YOU GOOD, BUT IF THEY DON'T , YOUR UP A S**T CREEK W/OUT A PATTLE.
2006-07-02 10:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by niles25_14 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋