What does it takes to become a good wife and mother?

Answer 1

I think to be a good wife and mother you have to have lots of love, patience and good communication. Patience for your kids and communication with your husband, well you will need some patience and communication for everything in life,and love for everyone. I am learning myself right now that life sure changes when you have kids. Life has so many joyful moments and we just need to savor them and try our best to do everything the best we know how. If we need help there are lost of people around us that will lend a hand, even our husbands will help if we ask.

Answer 2

I believe in my heart that anyone can become a good wife and a mother. It is in your spirit that lives inside of you. If someone is a mean person then those traits are going to come out in the long run. There are alot of women who want the kids for the money and that isn't the way to treat your kids or family. To be a good wife and mother it takes dedication and whole heartiness. It makes you stronger and you sometimes feel like your more than one person, but if that is what it takes to change the world in our children then i hope that you and everyone that is close to you see that no matter what you are a good wife and mother as long as you try your hardest, and strive to be what you know as the best you can be. Being a mother is one of the most rewarding things that a woman could experience. I don't know you personally but I bet you are already a good mother and wife to your family. Keep your head up and remember the one thing that i always go by with my own kids and husband, family and also friends is that there is a thing called Karma (aka what comes around goes around) If you try to do your best for you and your family good things will follow you but if you don't try or you give up i believe that down the road you will not be very happy. Stay strong and happy.

Answer 3

I would like to know the answer to this question myself. If you find out please email me and let me know. At times I believe we just feel around for the right things to say and do. We take in all the books and read all the articles around. What it all comes down to for me was a lot of sacrifice and giving. When you give all you have to give and there's nothing left to give; you can just chalk up it up to experience in each category. I have no husband now and the kids are all grown. I'm all by myself in this world. So when it's all over I sat and wonder if I said and did all the right things. I guess I'll find out in time. Until then I need to find something else to fill my life. I wish you good luck on your long journey.

Answer 4

To be a good wife I think you have to be able to compromise, realize that you both have your own strengths and weaknesses and that no ones perfect, and above all you have to have a good man.
To be a good mother you have to have unconditional love,loads of patience, and take the time to actually spend with your children.

Answer 5

it simply takes the true desire within yourself to want to be a good wife and a good mother. if you give a 100% to being these two things, in the end you will be the best wife and best mother.

Answer 6

It takes being willing to do whatever is best for the relationship with your husband, instead of what's best for you. When we are single, we can live for ourselves, but when we get married, to be successful at it, we need to do what's best for the both of us.
As for being a good mom, I would say that if you make being a good mom a priority, then you will be a good mom. The best advice would be don't have kids until you are really ready.

Answer 7

1. A good man
2. Patience
3. A loving and generous heart

The rest is details.

Answer 8

Having a man next to you who is a good husband and father.

Answer 9

A big heart, a little effort, and a lot of patience.

(answering by describing my wife :-) )

Answer 10

Unconditional love and compassion for your children and husband.Patients when times are trying.