im lesbian and i like a girl at work. i thought she liked me too by her gestures but i kno she has a bf and she isnt acting like she used to. almost ignorning me....i hate the way i feel, its depressing. how do i get over liking her?
2006-07-02 09:48:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll get over her, i.e., stop thinking about her so much ... when you start thinking of someone else.
2006-07-02 09:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face the truth. she doesn't like you any longer. She's in a relationship now, & by the way she's acting..she wants nothing to do with you. As mean as that sounds, it's most likely true.
It's going to suck, it's going to hurt. But that will fade. Just think about it like this..
she missed out. & there's clearly someone better for you out there. Get out with friends & have fun. there's no real plan to get over someone. Once you find someone else of interest or meet new people, you won't have a problem. but this might help too...
scream, cry, sob, vent to your friends, write about it, get everything out. It helps more than you think.
2006-07-02 09:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to move on, sorry I can't explain how because I don't know, I'll try to guess then:
-Find a hobby, something productive that will keep your mind thinking about something else the meanwhile you forget her
-Remember that there are a lot of girls out there, maybe this wasn't the one.
Good Luck!
2006-07-02 09:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by let the speakers blow your mind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to get over her, all you have to do is: keep yourself active, try not to think about her, when you think of her think of something else, you could possibly ignore her too and start dating someonelse. Maybe the one thing to do is, just find a girl who you may know would be interested in you too.
2006-07-02 09:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by delawaregirl83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never had anything going on in the first place except in your mind. Find someone else or get a new job. She might report you if you start bothering her.
2006-07-02 09:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First mistake, wanting to get involved with a co-worker.
These do not work, always end up with someone getting hurt.
Try to find someone outside of your work place.
2006-07-02 09:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. Get together with some friends and make some new ones.
2006-07-02 09:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
completely avoid her in every way possible. Try to cut her out of your life. And try to find someone new to crush on.
2006-07-02 09:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by Emily O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU GET OVA HER JUST LYKE A FEMALE GETS OVER HER MAN OR VISA VERSA....YOU INDULGE IN THINGS THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY KEEP BUSY TO STOP FROM THINKING ABOUT HER....DISCOVER DIFFERENT THINGS THINGS YOU USE TO DO TOGETHER DO THEM NO MORE WORK OVER TIME MAKE MORE MONEY THEN SPEND IT HOW U PLEASE AND WHEN YOU SEE HER AGAIN JUST SAY HEY AND KEEP GOIN'
2006-07-02 09:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by KARMA R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a lesbo u ll find some one easy ,what about threesome action do u like it
2006-07-02 09:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by ANUBIS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋